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I stopped taking the meds because I just could not afford $30 per month to get them. But I figured a way to get them this month and will pick them up today.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 16, 2004 at 10:42 AM
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jems, so, you stopped taking the meds because...........and now you're
very emotional. Do you stop them because they make you feel ill? Or, like me, stop taking meds because you just feel like stopping them? I decided to embrace high cholesterol and just go with the living on the edge of heart disease and strokes by stopping my Lipitor. Are you being like me??
Don't cry jems and you know that drinking just makes you cry more, it's a depressive......careful baby.
posted by
benzinha
on March 15, 2004 at 10:02 PM
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yes, still very nice. No classic beauty perhaps but you do have a
look that is very sexy and appealing, I think. You'll do ok. love. s.
posted by
scriber
on March 15, 2004 at 7:53 PM
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Ahhhh...yes...the bikini pic...
There are a few...uhhhh...much different ones in my
SLWBN blog (MA Audiences). And others in older posts of Opinionated Bitch.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 15, 2004 at 7:40 PM
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Scriber...again...hehe
Thanks. I can't remember which pic I gave to Ariala to post. I'll have to look again. It may be one of the ones that make me look better than I really do.
Only one person here has ever made any remote comment that I look good even when I think I look bad--and that's my Pecan-sis. She's a good woman.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 15, 2004 at 7:33 PM
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Jemmie. That is your picture on the photo page, isn't it? So, I think you
have a couple of scenic attractions of your own that would hook most guys. You are a beautiful woman. love Scriber.
posted by
scriber
on March 15, 2004 at 7:25 PM
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SCRIBER
Somehow I feel the islands of Hawaii have a bigger pull than do I.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 15, 2004 at 7:16 PM
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hi doll. Would you believe hundreds...You and the islands. What a treat.
posted by
scriber
on March 15, 2004 at 6:33 PM
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SCRIBER
LOL...perhaps you're right.
Hrmmm...wonder if there are any Blogit men willing to move to Hawaii for me!
ROFLMAO
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 15, 2004 at 6:29 PM
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Maybe you should start looking around; get a backup quarterback ready and
if you find a starter, dump the current guy's ass. You'll feel better. l.s.
posted by
scriber
on March 15, 2004 at 5:55 PM
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Thak you all
You all have made wonderful comments and suggestions. I really do appreciate them all.
I do believe he is truly sorry, but despite that, I still hurt--I still hurt like hell. And he has changed his behavior somewhat--started doing/saying things to prove to me he loves me, but part of me thinks he's doing those things simply because he knows I want them...not because he wants to do them.
Perhaps I am just depressed about this whole thing because I have stopped taking my Lexapro. Who knows. All I know is that I cry nearly every day. And that really sucks.
posted by
Jemmie211
on March 15, 2004 at 12:38 PM
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Is he REALLY sorry?
I would think he'd have to understand how you feel first, and then he wouldn't be so surprised if it takes some time to get over it. (Makes me mad, I could write a whole blog on the pointlessness of saying "I'm sorry"!)
posted by
TooeleWriterGal
on March 15, 2004 at 12:10 PM
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Like Ariala said, the hurt won't go magically
Give it time, think about it and examine the situation. Do not make a rushed decision and trust your instincts.
posted by
Runs_at_dawn
on March 15, 2004 at 11:22 AM
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Maybe you need to talk it out a little bit more
And not necessarily with your boyfriend; but with a mate or therapist. Hurt doesn't leave at the drop of a hat or an "I'm sorry." You've got to allow your heart time to heal.
posted by
CatLadyintheAttic
on March 15, 2004 at 8:14 AM
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Cheer up doll men are assholes
just don't take it too personally, and don't let 'em bring down your spirit.
posted by
freaky_inky
on March 15, 2004 at 6:20 AM
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Y'all are right.
It shouldn't have happened. Plus, Jemmie shouldn't have to live with the pain.
However, Jem, dear, the other side of "I'm sorry" is "I forgive you." Half-hearted forgiveness is just as bad as a half-hearted apology. Every time you think of the hurt, tell yourself that you forgive him,
and put the matter out of your mind for that moment. Continue to do this until the subject doesn't come to mind anymore.
posted by
GRYPHON
on March 15, 2004 at 5:57 AM
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jemmie, find out what the reality is and then move on that.
I don't know if he meant what he said or not, you are the one who has to live your life. Is it a good life? With him? Without him? I can't really comment as I always chose the wrong fellows and overstayed my unhappiness quotient, left, felt better and then found another idiot......I am THE example of what not to do.....
Living within the real world helps us find the most happiness. What is real?
posted by
benzinha
on March 15, 2004 at 1:01 AM
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Hi, my sweet Jemmie,
Listen up, you. The two of you have been together for a while. If he said something that emotionally damaging to you and he really didn't mean it, reality says, okay, yeah, maybe it was in the back of his mind somewhere, BUT, on the other hand, we all blurt out things sometimes that we don't really mean. Was he drunk? Was he pissed off about something else at the time he said it? Was he just saying it to possibly console his friend to make him feel better about something he was telling your b-friend at the time? Just consider those possibilities. It may not excuse the remark, but it may explain it a little. If you feel in your heart he is not really sorry, tell him. If it was something he said that is effecting you that bad, you need to tell him how bad it is for you and go from there. I also agree with WileyCoyote's comment. Think it all through.
posted by
SpitFire70
on March 15, 2004 at 12:06 AM
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Jemmie,
Just don't spend the rest of your life listening to "I'm sorry", do not let your self-esteem go for the sake of a relationship, that is far too big a price to pay.
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 14, 2004 at 10:04 PM
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My boyfriend gets mad also whenever I get mad at him.
Actually, you're lucky. Mine never says sorry. He always finds a way to make himself seem like he's not the bad person and he didn't do anything wrong, and I shouldn't get mad at him.
Men are stubborn. They don't know how women feel about such things. They say sorry and get over things quickly without much thought to it.
~ Sunny
posted by
Sunny_Delight
on March 14, 2004 at 9:43 PM
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Jemmie, first of all, he shouldn't get pissed at you for being hurt. Such
pain doesn't magically go away with I'm sorry. Be thankful he at least apologized for ripping out your heart. Not everyone is so lucky. Secondly, trust your gut, look for red flags, and don't compromise with yourself and what you want in life and in love. Sorry, I'm hurting myself.
posted by
Ariala
on March 14, 2004 at 9:34 PM
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