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Dances, if you don't mind another perspective...
The doctor's perspective may not be representative. I know of a couple (in their 40s) who still do not have kids, because the husband doesn't want any. The wife compromised on this issue.
In another case, I know of another couple which started out having rather different opinions about the number of kids they want. The guy wanted none as he disliked the idea of children running around and dirtying the house, while the wife, being a lover of kids, wanted two. They compromised eventually and settled for one.
I don't deny that the process of reaching an agreement on this issue is difficult. But, at least there is an agreement shared between the couple, preferably before marriage. Rather than getting married, and then silently hope that your husband will change his mind when he is 40, why not have a heart-to-heart talk with him? Find out what exactly are his concerns, and then try to work things out and if necessary, reach a compromise. After all, a marriage is a matter of give and take both ways. 
posted by
Amateur
on May 31, 2004 at 6:27 PM
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Dances...do you really want to be 40 when you have a kid?
Better get that guy to get lonely real fast. Good luck to you!
posted by
Original_Influence
on May 29, 2004 at 5:26 PM
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I know I agree
why did they? if you find out please let me know
take care love maxine
posted by
_Symphony_
on May 29, 2004 at 12:27 PM
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