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loanlady,
How very sad...You expressed this so gently. I hope that little girl's family will find healing.
posted by
myrrhage_
on November 4, 2004 at 7:32 PM
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thanks beachbelle I can find myself a dweller. I wrote a different story just now to snap out of it
posted by
the-loanlady
on November 2, 2004 at 5:12 PM
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loan-lady
This is beautifully expressed. It is good to speak about these things although not to dwell too much
posted by
beachbelle
on November 2, 2004 at 4:44 PM
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billy I am sorry about your friend, sometimes we wish we could change events, I know you must understand that one too thanks
posted by
the-loanlady
on November 2, 2004 at 4:31 PM
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frankenkitty and Ben you both picked up on the Rain part. The explanation the news/ police reports all gave was " the rain" the driver was not speeding and wasn't under the influence. We had a heavy rainstorm on this school morning. I called the school in the same morning to see if they might be closed or delayed- but they were not. Our street was like a river.
posted by
the-loanlady
on November 2, 2004 at 4:30 PM
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witchflower- my daughter is so much like me sometimes it amazes me. She told me she was going to get her friends to brainstorm about something positive to do
posted by
the-loanlady
on November 2, 2004 at 4:27 PM
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angelz-mind Tragic yes. I called city planning and faxed them a letter requesting they reduce the speed limit on many city streets, and got a response that they had been flooded with similar requests
posted by
the-loanlady
on November 2, 2004 at 4:25 PM
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You're a good writer...I remember my pretty friend that killed herself in
1990...not the same but gone is gone and anything good stopped short is sad
posted by
FreeManWalking
on November 2, 2004 at 1:44 PM
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That is very sad,
truly a tragedy. Maybe the rain was the angels crying because they knew it was her time. Sad.
Take care Loan_lady.
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on November 2, 2004 at 12:16 PM
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Sounds like you are doing all the right things to help your daughter through a sad time.
posted by
Ca88andra
on November 2, 2004 at 2:03 AM
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Tragedy in the rain
is a sad thing.
Ben
posted by
A-and-B
on November 1, 2004 at 1:03 AM
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So very sad.
It's wonderful, though, that you and your daughter can help each other work through this tragedy. Blessings to the girl's family. 
posted by
Witchflower
on October 31, 2004 at 9:28 PM
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Loanlady~~~
aww.. what a tradgedy... I too will pray for her and her family.
I want to thank you for stopping by and leaving comments.. earlier. I do appreciate it and please come back more often .:) Take care of yourself and your children.
posted by
ANGELZ_MIND
on October 31, 2004 at 9:24 PM
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we have been talking a great deal. For some connection it brings up feelings of other losses. You are so right talking does help
posted by
the-loanlady
on October 31, 2004 at 3:00 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. Tragedies like this are the ones that really make me furious at God... I'd suggest just talking to your daughter about how she is feeling about all this -- my therapist tells me that it's the best way of coping with grief and loss is just to talk about it.
posted by
telynor
on October 31, 2004 at 1:48 PM
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