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Thanks Jemmie
<big hugs>
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 21, 2004 at 4:21 PM
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Better late, than never.
*gives you a knowing and comforting nod*
posted by
Jemmie211
on December 21, 2004 at 12:08 PM
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Thanks Wiley, you may be right
It's so difficult to know what is the right thing to do. I really do want to help someone who is feeling the same sort of grief, not as a salve for my own pain, but to aid in any way I can.
It's an impossible situation so I will take your advice to heart, and keep to myself.
Thank you so much for the heartfelt thoughts.
posted by
DivineDiva
on November 9, 2004 at 4:55 PM
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Divine Diva
You asked, so I answer. Look after your own pain, your own grief, and accept your situation, sad and difficult as it certainly is.
Your reaching out has more to do I think with your need to feel that maybe you will be able to touch a part of him who you loved, by reaching out to those whom he loved.
I think you will be so very much more hurt, if that is even possible, or that action may cause terrible hurt.
This is one of those terrible times in life when the very hardest thing to do is- nothing.
If I can help, e-mail me, I am and older listener, with some painful memories luv
posted by
WileyJohn
on November 8, 2004 at 10:20 PM
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I think comforted.....but.....that's just my view
I think that knowing that he was loved, supported, comforted, happy, joyful would make them happy.....but I'm afraid they might judge him for having found this love outside the traditional realm.
This is my conflict.
posted by
DivineDiva
on November 7, 2004 at 3:45 PM
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yes what wolf- girl said..........I understand
your pain.............I went to a wonderful service today I wrote about it............gifted amazing writer blog!
anyway
this is such a difficult situatiion to be in... as it can hurt you all alot more.................I am thinknig of you...and remember email me anytime
all the best..................
posted by
_Symphony_
on November 7, 2004 at 3:44 PM
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here's the question I would ask myself: will they be comforted, or hurt further?
posted by
Wolf-Girl
on November 7, 2004 at 3:39 PM
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