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Thank you Ca88andra
All the best to you and your family too...
posted by
DivineDiva
on January 1, 2005 at 6:48 PM
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Alzheimers is very sad. My mother has it and life for those around her becomes very difficult indeed. Good luck in 2005.
posted by
Ca88andra
on January 1, 2005 at 2:53 AM
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Thank you Whammie
I am hoping that the dawn breaks soon, this character building shit is for the birds 
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That makes me sound flippant about what's happened, and I don't mean to be, truly. I guess the biggest thing I've struggled with is trying to understand the reason for it all.
My lover was the most caring, beautiful person who helped others selflessly. Why was he taken when there are scumbuckets in this world who wouldn't give a nickel to their dying grandmother?
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 29, 2004 at 6:53 AM
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It sounds as if you have had a difficult time of late.
They say the darkest hour is just before the dawn. I hope the sun rises for you soon! I will be praying for you.
They also say "If it don't kill ya, it makes you stronger!" Don't you just wanna say back to that shit, "Yeah well, thank you very much, but I think I am strong enough!"
Pray to your Angel or Angels to protect you and give you Strength, Patience, Understanding and Wisdom.
Peace, Love, and a Giant Hug!
Whammie 
posted by
WHAMENATOR
on December 29, 2004 at 4:18 AM
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Thank you Scriber
... it helps to know I have friends here looking out for me
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 28, 2004 at 4:40 PM
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Divine--sorry. I know you must be very much broken up over it.
My condolences. love Scriber
posted by
scriber
on December 28, 2004 at 4:38 PM
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Scriber
The love of my life was killed in a car accident, not anyone's fault, just one of those tragic, awful things that tears someone away long before they were meant to go from this life.
Losing him has been the hardest thing that I've ever had to deal with, more so because he and I were making so many wonderful plans for our future.
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 28, 2004 at 4:32 PM
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hi DD--how was your lover killed? love Scriber
posted by
scriber
on December 28, 2004 at 8:15 AM
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Symph
Thank you Symph, this disease is such an awful one isn't it?
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 28, 2004 at 5:45 AM
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Jemmie....
yes, the crisis with my Dad was the other event I wrote about in one of the early blogs here.
My Dad was involved in the class action suit that sued the government agency responsible for the tainted blood. He received some compensation from the settlement but of course that can't replace good health.
The GP is another story. I have spoken to my parents a number of times about suing for malpractice, but this doctor is so ill himself, that my Dad doesn't want to pursue it. Or as he's said it "I don't want to sue for money, I want to put that guy's balls in a vice for a day or so" (my Dad tends to be quite descriptive ).
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers Jemmie,
posted by
DivineDiva
on December 28, 2004 at 5:43 AM
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thats so sad
my nan had alzehimers...its so hard watching them deteriate....it broke my heart....hope you are ok?....take care
posted by
_Symphony_
on December 28, 2004 at 2:37 AM
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Can you take legal action against his doctor?
Your dad should not have been given Hep-C nor had such poor care in general. Was his attempt on his life the other event you'd mentioned that was hard on your the week you lost your lover? My thoughts and prayers are with you.
posted by
Jemmie211
on December 27, 2004 at 11:18 PM
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