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I wish there was a "Wisdom-B-Us"!!!! LOL
posted by
MariVye
on April 20, 2005 at 10:52 AM
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Unidentified Hacker,
I cannot tell you how many times this has happened to me. Girlfriends of roommates moving in and attemtping taking over. Organizing and rearranging furniture is a sneaky female take-over tactic. Women in offices do it, girlfiends who want to claim territory, like to "piss" on the walls, so to speak.
Be careful that your mental illness is not used as an excuse to de-stabilize you, she's already threatened to call 911 on you for "acting weird". If she's sneaky enough, she will try to really get you angry, then if you appear agitated or raise your voice, she has an exuse to play victim and call the cops. I'm not sure how to advise you on this, this is how I ended up in jaul. Be careful, my friend.
posted by
Blanche.
on April 19, 2005 at 10:46 PM
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now that'a boy! I was starting to get worried. I knew you had to have
some good "stick it to em" feelings somewhere down deep. Just don't leave a paper trail.
posted by
Kiddo75
on April 19, 2005 at 9:43 AM
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CHELLYBELLY
Ohhh chelly chelly chelly. Just because I won't tell her about the cheating thing doesn't mean I won't do terrible things to her =P. I know plenty about her that would sting terribly to bring up, and you know how I love emotional pain.
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 9:41 AM
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MariVye
Time to stop off at the Wisdom-B-Us eh? I need to go there too, but last I time I went I stole an idea and got banned =(
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 9:39 AM
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donaldoji
It seems like those of us with roommate problems far outnumber those without! Thanks for stopping by and reading =)
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 9:38 AM
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hacker, give it a week. You'll spill them beans faster than if you ate a
bad batch of em. trust me. besides, it's much worse to find out everyone knew what a dumbfuck you were. trust me on that one too. 2 birds with one stone. get the bitch out and help her go on to bigger and better things. and it doesn't have to come from you...
stop being so nice. you have your own problems and she's being a whiney little bitch not giving one ounce of consideration to you or your needs. they both are fuckin you so fuck them. Or, go the good person route, in the end you'll probably be a better person for it. takin it up the bum finally does take it's toll though. so hopefully you'll be a good guy to survive their evil wrath....lol take care, I hope for the best.
posted by
Kiddo75
on April 19, 2005 at 9:27 AM
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Sounds like you are between a rock and a hard place.
Good luck with that - I wish I had some words of wisdom, but I am fresh out.
posted by
MariVye
on April 19, 2005 at 9:21 AM
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Whew! I know what you mean about the roommate business...
I've had a million and not one ever worked out worth a damn. Today, by the grace of God, I live alone (too alone!), but I could easily slide into a situation where I'll have to do the roommate thing again.
I just found you so I'm just beginning to read your blogs. Very interesting, and I'll be back!
posted by
donaldoji
on April 19, 2005 at 9:18 AM
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CHELLYBELLY
Oh, I've certainly felt the urge to do something not socially acceptable to her. But you know, as much as I would love to tell her about his little adventure with the other girl, I don't know, it just doesn't seem like my place to go and say something. Blah.
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 9:15 AM
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Ahhh....metal music in the morning. well, I listen to it all day.
I usually stay pissed I guess. But having someone scream everything I feel in a fast loud way seems to make my day brighter and happier and me feel special.
(I had Pantera's Fuckin Hostile injected into me for the last few days) It's you against the happy deluded couple. I had some instances like that as well, where you really couldn't do anything about whoever staying with you, but you were on the verge of smashing their head into the wall. (or is that just me.) I hated the fact that I had to stay in my room in MY house just to avoid the parasite staying with me. I HATED the fact that them going to take a shit meant I had a few moments of them out of my way. All I can say, is hang in there, and hopefully she won't be there that long. Make her life a living hell. Eventually she'll get offended enough to have to do something. OR....if you get real sick of her. let her "find out" about his Mr. winky taking an off ramp...she sure wouldn't stay with him then.
posted by
Kiddo75
on April 19, 2005 at 9:11 AM
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renigade
Very true. I think my step dad had the same problem, and I seem to remember him warning me about it =P
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 9:03 AM
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UH--Look at it this way: This is a completely normal problem for a guy
your age. Happens all the time with room mates everywhere... At least you know that you're not alone on this one! Good luck, though!
posted by
Renigade
on April 19, 2005 at 8:56 AM
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It sounds like the right song, but I can't recall. I will check further
into this band.
posted by
Ariala
on April 19, 2005 at 8:50 AM
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WileyMan
Thanks for stopping by! I remember a long time ago you told me about your experiences with psychosis =). See, my memory works.... some times =P
In June I will be moving probably into a little studio house on my parents' property. Talk about a sweet deal. Cheap rent, free utilities, free washer/dryer attached to the studio, free meal every night plus family there for when symptoms get really bad. All that, and the little house is 50 feet or so from the main house, so I can be loouuuddd and not wake anyone. Muahaha! =P
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:46 AM
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Ariala
Does he sing "She isn't real. I can't make her real" at then end? It has to be from their new CD. On their first two CDs combined he sang about a woman once, in one song =P. And yes, his voice really is amazing. If you want to hear just HOW amazing, listen to "Bother" by the band "Stone Sour". The lead singer of Slipknot is also lead singer of Stone Sour =)
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:43 AM
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UH
Great post, sorry it took me so long to get here but hey I,m older alright! 
Also I do know about psychosis somewhat.
Seems to me hoss like you'd be smart to do the moving to get your peace in your own space if that is possible.
Nothing is worth losing your cool over hoss
posted by
WileyJohn
on April 19, 2005 at 8:43 AM
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Talion
Very impressive! =) You're absolutely right she wants me out. In fact, when our lease runs up in June, he's going to move in with her. I almost want to stay in touch with them so I can watch the relationship disintegrate. There's nothing more entertaining than an unfaithful guy moving in with his girlfriend who's obsessed with him. Hehehehe, oh I just wish I could watch it all fall apart.
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:41 AM
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Hacker, no, I've only heard the one song on the radio and only heard it
a few times...the one where he says something about "she's so tedious." Maybe I don't have that right, but it always makes me laugh. Good music and his voice is haunting.
posted by
Ariala
on April 19, 2005 at 8:37 AM
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Unidentified_Hacker
She may not know of the cheating, but deep down, she knows their relationship is not what it should be. She wants desperately to "fix" it, hence the domestic diva nonsense. She's attempting to make herself indespensible. However, there's one obstacle in her path, one thing she foolishly believes stands in her way of romantic bliss. You. Watch her closely because even as you talk to us about this situation, she's talking to your roommate, whispering in his ear, after he comes home to a spotless apartment, etc. She wants to move in, but first, she wants to move you out.
posted by
Talion
on April 19, 2005 at 8:36 AM
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Ariala
Hahaha. Have you heard Slipknot's song Get This? I'll cut the song up so he just keeps repeating "Get this or die. Get this or die." over and over and over again while I watch the security camera footage from inside the school and have the 911 tapes playing over the music. hehehehe
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:34 AM
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Hey, next time she's there, listen to those tapes and a Slipknot CD at the
same time and swear there are messages coming out from them WHILE watching that pigeon scene with Hannibal's face in it. hahahahaha
posted by
Ariala
on April 19, 2005 at 8:22 AM
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Factor
You know, that's really not a bad idea. I'm surprised he's not more worried about it. Then, I don't think he knows that I know about the whole thing. He probably thinks he was really sneaky and got away with it =P
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:19 AM
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roofpig
Ah! Genius! When she's sitting the living room I can unplug my headphones and listen to the 911 tapes with the volume way up too. She hates listening to them.
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:18 AM
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UH
Have you dropped the hint to roomie that you could truly accidentally say something that would reveal his little indiscretions with her around so much? I mean the more you are around someone the more possible it is... So either he will try to keep her around you less or give you an indication that he's expecting you to let it out at some point anyway...which would hasten her departure most likely.
I don't mean blackmail, just pointing out the obvious. The "Hey dude, this is hard to keep your lies straight and it's not fair to put me in this position." speech....
posted by
FactorFiction
on April 19, 2005 at 8:17 AM
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This was the same girl that got freaked out by all your Columbine research, right? Just start wearing a trench coat all the time around the apartment.
posted by
roofpig
on April 19, 2005 at 8:14 AM
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Ariala
She doesn't know he cheated on her.
And hell yeah love Slipknot =P. Everyone should. On angry morning such as this you have to go with their first CD.
posted by
Unidentified_Hacker
on April 19, 2005 at 8:10 AM
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Is she needy or something? Isn't the fact that he cheated on her enough
for her to move on? And dude, I love Slipknot. Tedious, tedious...
posted by
Ariala
on April 19, 2005 at 8:08 AM
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