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depends
could be i'm pretty high on the scale in relation to many of my peers

posted by Xeno-x on September 23, 2005 at 11:01 AM | link to this | reply

Avant -
Me too. I try not to, but it does happen on occassion.

posted by sannhet on September 23, 2005 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

Caleb -
I want to get to the point where I don't love because I'm commanded to, but because I need to.

posted by sannhet on September 23, 2005 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

Jomei -
I like that - "Love and Honesty are twins". Might have to post on that statement.

posted by sannhet on September 23, 2005 at 7:46 AM | link to this | reply

Xeno -
40% is pretty good. Though it should be a bit higher for a pope.

posted by sannhet on September 23, 2005 at 7:45 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala -
Thanks! And thank goodness love is patient, or we'd be in bigger world of hurt then we currently are.

posted by sannhet on September 23, 2005 at 7:44 AM | link to this | reply

Loving the not-so-lovable

can be hard!  But... I am commanded to do it and want to be obedient.  Loving someone is a willful act... a choice.... sometimes a very hard choice.

posted by calebs_blogger on September 22, 2005 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

Love takes many forms, often quite different from the popular
luvvy duvvy kind that were taught to follow. Loving people sometimes means being willing to be with your adversarial feelings toward them instead of saying "Ooh no, not me! I couldn't possibly feel like that toward so and so, all ya need is love da dada da dadada...!". Love and Honesty are twins.

posted by Jomei on September 22, 2005 at 3:48 PM | link to this | reply

me?

if i love half the time i'm being pretty good.

if my thoughts are loving instead of adversarial, etc., 40% of the time, then I feel I qualify for sainthood.

i work toward some loving postures -- doing things for others -- but there still is that human thing of -- you know -- the "works of the flesh" -- the usual striving.

but, unlike Ariala, I fool people into believing I'm loving.  It seems to work most of the time.

posted by Xeno-x on September 22, 2005 at 2:21 PM | link to this | reply

sannhet
good post. sometimes i choose other than love, which reminds why i choose it.

posted by avant-garde on September 22, 2005 at 1:19 PM | link to this | reply

sannhet, what a cool post...I do remind myself that sometimes other
 people's moods might prevent them from "feeling" my love.  The resistance is there at times, but love is patient and love is kind and gives space when it's needed.

posted by Ariala on September 22, 2005 at 11:35 AM | link to this | reply