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LifeByLisa, Oh, man! I'm the same way!
I get so close and then back out. What's up with that? Sorry to hear your birth mom was killed. Goodness. Maybe that should be more motivation for me to pee or get off the pot, huh? So, did your b-family tell you anything about your b-dad? Can they help you find him?
posted by
SpitFire70
on November 2, 2005 at 10:16 PM
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Good luck either way...
I too have the original birth certificate, and had the opportunity years ago when my birth family contacted me. Unfortunately I didn't get many questions answered as my birth mother had passed away a few months prior to them locating me. It was pretty hard, especially since she had been murdered.
I've still gone back and forth since my teen years about finding my dad. I sometimes start a search, have made progress but let fear get in the way.
posted by
LifeByLisa
on November 2, 2005 at 6:23 PM
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You too, Symph!
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 31, 2005 at 10:44 AM
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Take care.....
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 31, 2005 at 5:47 AM
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B, thank you for your advice.
I really appreciate it.
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 27, 2005 at 2:52 PM
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I understand there is pain and many issues here. I would suggest to search and be done with it. Before the lady expires.
B.
posted by
A-and-B
on October 27, 2005 at 2:47 PM
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J-Mom,
Thank you so much. You always say such sweet things.
I wanted to publicly thank him cause he didn't have to take the time to write me the story. It meant a lot to me. Yeah, this is a hard decision and it's been a "thing" for me all my life.
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 27, 2005 at 1:29 PM
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Spitfire
That is so you, to be so nice to thank this person publicly for doing a kind act for you. I am proud of both of you. Oh what a dilemma. I hope you find total peace over this one it is really a big deal. Love ya, your additional J-Mom
posted by
Justi
on October 27, 2005 at 12:45 AM
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lilaznthug85, I'm confused about your comment.
Whacha mean "do a rap?" Just curious!
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 26, 2005 at 5:39 PM
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should do a rap since your name is spitfire
posted by
lilaznthug85
on October 26, 2005 at 7:02 AM
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Aw, thanks so much Cass!!
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 25, 2005 at 5:22 PM
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As you know I believe in karma and you certainly deserve a lot of good karma! So, when someone does something nice for you just know that you deserve it!
posted by
Ca88andra
on October 25, 2005 at 4:00 AM
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Reni, yep. I really like him a lot.
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 24, 2005 at 6:34 PM
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Glad you saw it, Lens and I really did appreciate it.
By the time I actually make a decision, she'll probably be dead anyway. 
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 24, 2005 at 6:33 PM
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He definitely is a stand up guy, that's for sure...
posted by
Renigade
on October 23, 2005 at 9:30 PM
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Hey, Spitfire....
Gee, thanks for that, and for the hug 
Totally appreciated, and I was more than happy to share the info....
All the best to you whichever way you decide to go. 
posted by
Lensman
on October 23, 2005 at 9:27 PM
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Word,
Thanks! And thanks for the card!
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 23, 2005 at 4:39 PM
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Spitfire
Good of you to share this as well. 
posted by
word.smith
on October 23, 2005 at 4:25 PM
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Factor,
Me always in a Hallowween mood! All year long, infact! hehe
posted by
SpitFire70
on October 22, 2005 at 11:52 PM
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That was really nice! I can't imagine too many people
have helpful information on the subject... In fact most bloggers are nice people. Damn, I'm in a sappy mood. I have to go read something gruesome. (went to the library today and I'm in a Halloween mood)
posted by
FactorFiction
on October 22, 2005 at 5:19 PM
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