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Lustor,
I've sent you

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 4, 2006 at 3:01 PM | link to this | reply

sunny
why is it everytime I try to warn you, you become defensive, I not doing it to hurt you but to give you a heads up on what is going on around you.  Being used by a man is terrible feeling and one of the one reasons I stayed with my husband was for my kids, that was their dad.  The other reason believe it or not I loved this man, and second of all I had no way to support myself and I don't like living off the government.  And if you are willing to start off with a man that cheats on you before you even meet what does that say about you.  At least I was married to my man for  20 years.

posted by Lanetay on November 4, 2006 at 10:24 AM | link to this | reply

posted by Lanetay on November 4, 2006 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny, I think that Lilane is only trying to warn you that
He may be cheating on you with other girls - dont' you care if he's telling 3 different women the same lies at the same time?

posted by Passionflower on November 4, 2006 at 9:58 AM | link to this | reply

first of alll he is only 13 years younger than me and I havent been seeking him, maybe its the other way around

posted by Lanetay on November 4, 2006 at 8:44 AM | link to this | reply

Bhaskar
Yes, cute. I am sending energy so you may not be destroyed by any negative energy residing within you. I will be which witch friend you like.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 4, 2006 at 8:07 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny
You think I am cute? So you are sending energy, that I may not be destroyed by the unknown bad energy sitting next to me. Oh thank you dear. You are such a whichchy friend.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 4, 2006 at 12:49 AM | link to this | reply

Bhaskar,
Good to hear that the pain is getting better. It's good that you can enjoy your time off.

Hahaha. I'm sure you would feel completely comfortable sitting next to ANYONE!  You're too cute.  Why would you have fear of an unknown energy?  I can't imagine any energy, known or unknown, wishing to harm you.
Take Care. I hope you continue to improve. I will keep sending energy for you.  Being the friend of a witch has certain advantages.   

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 4, 2006 at 12:07 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny
....and Sunny I am completely comfortable sitting next to an unknown energy... Have to be decent, you know...

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 3, 2006 at 11:26 PM | link to this | reply

Sunny and lustor
Enjoying myself, and the pain seems to be giving away. Am on leave so....hahahaaa

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 3, 2006 at 11:20 PM | link to this | reply

Also, If he's old enough to be my father, you're old enough to be his

grandmother. So why are you still seeking him out?

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 3, 2006 at 11:07 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor, first of all, he's not old enough to be my dad.

Unless of course, you've started encouraging your children to be parents at around 10 years old. And if you are not hostile, why are you so hell bent on making him leave me?
And if your eyes are so open, why is it that you spent so much of your life with a cheating, lying man? And why all the gossip? Gossip is exactly what it is...gossip.
It's not going to improve your rating, if that is what you are hoping for.

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 3, 2006 at 11:04 PM | link to this | reply

Sunnybeach7
I am not hostile I am just smart and observe what is around me and have no fear of men, just what they might do o my heart, but at least my eyes are open, and for you men old enough to be your dad

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2006 at 10:46 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor,

Apparently. Why else would you be so hostile?

 

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 3, 2006 at 10:38 PM | link to this | reply

me taken?

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2006 at 10:34 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor
Perhaps. I wouldn't want to be taken like it seems you had been.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on November 3, 2006 at 10:31 PM | link to this | reply

maybe you should pay attention to your fear of men

posted by Lanetay on November 3, 2006 at 10:11 PM | link to this | reply

I wish you strength
with your personal dilemma

posted by Tanga on October 29, 2006 at 12:49 AM | link to this | reply

Maybe you'll never get completely over your fear...
But the fact that you sat there after this guy came and sat near you shows that you can control your responses - and that you've got the courage to face your fear. That's a good place to be. :)

posted by Pat_B on October 28, 2006 at 9:13 AM | link to this | reply

Moxie_Maven
I guess, maybe I should have said that it happens with women as well, but not as often as it does with men.
I haven't had much interaction with people in my life, but have had much more with women than men, so I guess I'm just not used to the energy exchange?

I view it as something that should have developed naturally, in childhood, but due to circumstances, never did.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 27, 2006 at 9:31 PM | link to this | reply

babe_rocks
It's mostly all...though with older men, say around 65+, it's not as strong.

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on October 27, 2006 at 9:28 PM | link to this | reply

You have just as much right to be there as anyone else, male or
female. It sounds like you need to work on creating a stronger energy within yourself and utilizie it in a positive nature once you have built it up.

posted by Moxie_Maven on October 27, 2006 at 9:21 PM | link to this | reply

Interesting situation and concept. Is it all men or just ones in a certain age group? Regarding the harnessing of any kind of energy, I think it's possible.

posted by babe_rocks on October 27, 2006 at 9:13 PM | link to this | reply