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Certainly sounds like an interesting character Kasthu. I wonder what she was planning on doing with all that money?

posted by robdon67 on December 23, 2006 at 1:44 PM | link to this | reply

I just realized how that sounded! I should've followed up with a smiley!
She sounds so fun! 

posted by Presley on December 22, 2006 at 7:13 PM | link to this | reply

Kasthu
$20,000 in one sitting?  She sounds so fun! 

posted by Presley on December 22, 2006 at 7:10 PM | link to this | reply

She sounds a lot like my grandma who was never happy
unless she was miserable!

posted by Whacky on December 22, 2006 at 6:52 PM | link to this | reply

check with the doctor

It could be that your grandmother is experiencing some dementia symptoms. Even if some of the behaviour is typical to her personality, as she ages it might be aggravated by this.

It's not uncommon for people her age to distrust banks, she lived with parents who survived the depression. Many older people are fearful and behave aggressively out of fear, whether it's a conscious fear or not. Their ability to make rational decisions starts to decrease too. Taking large amounts of money out of the bank could be because she is afraid she won't have any when she needs it.

A sympathetic ear to listen to her, a huge dose of patience and an attitude of "what does it hurt" will help you and your family cope.

posted by DivineDiva on December 22, 2006 at 6:41 PM | link to this | reply

Interesting post.

posted by afzal50 on December 22, 2006 at 5:42 PM | link to this | reply