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Don't let it get you down, 8-ball. We all hit these bumps now and again.
You get through.
posted by
saul_relative
on March 15, 2007 at 8:19 PM
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I'm sorry to hear.
I didn't know you were having problems with him. I'm glad at least you will be ok and that you have your family for help.
Make sure you get the things out of there that are most important to you first.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on March 15, 2007 at 11:48 AM
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8 ball
glad you made it... good old dad. Take care while you drive.
posted by
richinstore
on March 14, 2007 at 6:16 AM
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Do what I did all those years ago....I got even. I made a new a great a
profitable life for myself and my kids. I didn't set out to get even but because I worked really hard and shrugged my shoulders (sometimes anyway) at the tought times, I succeeded and left him far behind.
posted by
Kabu
on March 14, 2007 at 5:05 AM
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oh dear ........... so much of your story is familiar to me.........
but this hubby of yours ..well it don't sound good ..looks like an abusive pattern....... if he don't tell u where he is then - well what can i say that sure is suspicious.
posted by
Jaahda
on March 13, 2007 at 11:48 PM
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sounds like things are working out ok, but that hubby of yours needs a
swift kick in the, um, pants...
..
posted by
Rumor
on March 13, 2007 at 8:39 PM
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79
I know what your friend is going through and yeah it is beyond me why he left. I don't know if I am ready to move on just yet and thanks for saying I am most deserving.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 8:23 PM
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8-ball...
...I hope everything works out well for you. A buddy of mine had to endure a similarly random and inexplicable end to his marriage when his wife just bailed on him. There were no real warning signs or anything, just one day she mentioned that she wasn't happy and that she couldn't explain why and the next thing he knew she was moving back in with her mom and he got divorce papers served to him, and she told him they'd be selling the condo they bought together, and b/c of the cost of it, he couldn't afford to keep it himself, so it is effectively for sale now and he's looking at having to find new housing once it sells. She never bothered to tell him what happened, or why she was leaving him or anything, she just basically threw in the towel. It's sad enough when someone finds out the person they thought was their soulmate no longer wants to be with them, but it's incredibly unfair and rotten for one person to leave another without so much as being decent enough to offer an explanation as to why. It's great your dad is going to help you out. I hope you both find suitable partners in due time b/c it sounds like you're both more than deserving.
posted by
JBird79
on March 13, 2007 at 8:11 PM
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Whacky
Thanks I hope so, keep your fingers crossed. One thing after another it seems like it never ends. Now we are moving again. At least I don't have to pack too much didn't really unpack to begin with.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 7:47 PM
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Mark
I think that could work. LOL save it for me in time of need if you know what I mean.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 7:45 PM
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50
Your telling me? I know, he was normal and everything and then after Christmas/my birthday he stormed out and never came back. I would love to know what is going on or what I did but like always I am the last to know.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 7:44 PM
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Looks like things are looking up somewhat.
I hope it gets better! A rose
from Bo =^..^= and one
from me!
posted by
Whacky
on March 13, 2007 at 6:56 PM
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I can't understand how your husband could behave so stragely .
posted by
afzal50
on March 13, 2007 at 6:26 PM
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I have a small arsenol ~
And you're welcome to borrow the firearm of your choice, so long as it hasn't been previously reserved.
Or being sighted-in by Yours Truly.
posted by
mark2556
on March 13, 2007 at 6:19 PM
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Thanks Mark
Sometimes I wish I had a gun.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 6:15 PM
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Good shots.
posted by
mark2556
on March 13, 2007 at 6:07 PM
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Oh yeah
I forgot to add why he didn't take the dog he brought home a few months ago? But I guess he would have to take care of it and feed and actually take it for a walk and look after it.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 5:57 PM
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Thanks Shelly
I don't really know what to do sometimes. It all feels like a bad dream and I'm going to wake up to everything back to the way it was. Yes my dad is great I just hope I don't pull him under with me he is not a rich man but says he will do anything for the kids and I. Now can you believe my dad is single! I don't know why he has not found anyone yet.
posted by
8-ball
on March 13, 2007 at 5:49 PM
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I'm glad you got some help. I think it was unfair of your hubby to take
that stuff. He could have talked to you about it first.
posted by
shelly_b
on March 13, 2007 at 5:31 PM
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