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Thank you Bro or is it sis?

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 11:23 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Fighting back is a good one but you have to choose the right weapons fo
The weapons are there! Research and find them....with a little friendly help from SB!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 11:22 PM | link to this | reply

Fighting back is a good one but you have to choose the right weapons for
everyone.

posted by proc on August 30, 2007 at 9:59 PM | link to this | reply

posted by star4sky5 on August 30, 2007 at 8:31 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: Re: He meant ...disorient the attacker!

yeah, I got that part ... what I didn't to get at first was the flatuente noises. LOL

 

posted by Sheilah on August 30, 2007 at 7:05 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Re: He meant ...disorient the attacker!
GIVE THEM SOMETHING totally unexpected, ridiculous or far away from what they want the result to be and they get confused!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 6:41 PM | link to this | reply

Re: He meant ...disorient the attacker!
Oh!... these metaphores confuse my portuga brain cells... hehehehehe

posted by Sheilah on August 30, 2007 at 1:11 PM | link to this | reply

Sheilah
I really chuckled on that on that one. He meant ...disorient the attacker!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 9:43 AM | link to this | reply

Re: I'm clicking back. Don't have time to read right now. gotta run....
Thanks!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Soul_Builder
Taps, thanks for the info!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 9:41 AM | link to this | reply

Flatulente noises??? LOL ...
that should do it!

posted by Sheilah on August 30, 2007 at 9:02 AM | link to this | reply

I'm clicking back. Don't have time to read right now. gotta run....

posted by WindTapper on August 30, 2007 at 7:48 AM | link to this | reply

Soul_Builder
I would recommend the Bridal Cave, but I don't know if you are already married.  Maybe Meremac.  You could easily lose them, or get lost in it yourself.  They are both a bit cold and drippy though.  My recommendation would be the Cave of the Winds in Colorado.  It is high and dry instead of deep and damp.

posted by TAPS. on August 30, 2007 at 7:38 AM | link to this | reply

Taps
Wish they would leave me alone....but they persist in trying to catch me! It is easy to run rings around them but then I don't have the time for these people. Wish I could find some seclusion. Do you know any caves I could use?

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 7:30 AM | link to this | reply

Soul_Builder
Though I don't fear invalidaters, they do become a little tiresome.  They feel its their right to persist and seldom give in to cease or desist.  If I am unsuccessful at invalidating the invalidaters with semi-kindly method of just ignoring, now and then I take on the attributes of a myrmadon.  I don't like myself very well when I do that.

posted by TAPS. on August 30, 2007 at 7:18 AM | link to this | reply

Xenox
Thanks for the visit! Usually I drop in on your blog!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 6:44 AM | link to this | reply

Sheilah
That would work! I like the recommendation about laughing hysterically. Not to mention making flatulent noises! LOL

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 6:42 AM | link to this | reply

Foliage, thanks for the visit!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 6:40 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Interesting
Yes, that should do it. Thanks for the visit and comment!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 6:39 AM | link to this | reply

eh

posted by Xeno-x on August 30, 2007 at 6:09 AM | link to this | reply

I don't know if it was from this book or not because I read part of it a
long time ago---but I remember readingsomething interesting about how to "invalidate" people who make those nasty "indirect" unfundamented remarks just to put you down in front of people. The solution was to confront them in a nice calm manner with an "Oh really, so what makes you say that?". Normally, thats takes the invalidator by surprise and leaves him speechless...and looking bad in front of others." I found that really works in this situation.

posted by Sheilah on August 30, 2007 at 4:56 AM | link to this | reply

Soul_Builder

posted by FoliageGold on August 30, 2007 at 3:38 AM | link to this | reply

Interesting
can I also say that taking away the fuel that feeds the fire debilitates it eventually - simply cutting off their energy supply will stop the flow.....

posted by mariaki on August 30, 2007 at 3:01 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal, 7 stars
Thanks for your visit and comments!

posted by Soul_Builder101 on August 30, 2007 at 12:12 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for sharing !

posted by afzal50 on August 29, 2007 at 11:26 PM | link to this | reply

posted by star4sky5 on August 29, 2007 at 10:51 PM | link to this | reply