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brianne_amai
He was bipolar and for a time he was seeing things that weren't there, but this was before I met him.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 7, 2007 at 6:50 AM
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ummmm
he sounds like a narccisist to me! (i probably spelled that wrong...) maybe "just" a sociopath...
posted by
brianne_amai
on September 6, 2007 at 10:04 PM
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Although I don't mean to get married...
...I will remember all your pointers here if I ever find myself thinking of it (and actually the one time I did nearly get married, it's quite scary how many of your pointers I can tick now so I'm glad I didn't).
Wow... you really went through it (and I'm sure still are) but you are doing so well,
best wishes,
opheliablue 
posted by
opheliablue
on September 5, 2007 at 11:26 PM
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Pat_B
Yes, I try to remind myself every single day that I did the RIGHT thing.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 5, 2007 at 7:02 AM
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Mademoiselle
Nope, it is definitely an addon.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 5, 2007 at 7:02 AM
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lovelyladymonk
Funny thing is, I do want to get married again, but this time, I have a LOT more experience.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 5, 2007 at 7:02 AM
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Gypsysue
Well, I didn't go for an STD checkup because I believe him that nothing happened that could actually lead to get an STD, but should I believe him?
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 5, 2007 at 7:01 AM
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A-and-B
It's sad really, when you realize that you married a stranger.
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 5, 2007 at 7:00 AM
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And another thing... once you're in the clear
and one more thing occurs to you that you coulda-shoulda-woulda done to solve all the problems -- write it down, wrap it in toilet tissue and flush it. Never, under any circumstances, give it a try.
My daughter sent me an email when she finally called it quits with her selfish alcoholic ex -- a Dr. Phil Question. Q. What's worse than staying in a bad relationship for nine years? A. Staying in it for nine years and one day.
posted by
Pat_B
on September 5, 2007 at 6:54 AM
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This serves to further reinforce my previously held beliefs.
So the "happy ending" isn't just a standart part of the massage "package"?
I knew that bastard was lying!
When Gary told me he was having trouble with his wife, I had to laugh.
Not because of what he said, but because of a joke I thought of.
I told him the joke, but he didn't laugh very much.
Some friend he is!
posted by
Mademoiselle
on September 5, 2007 at 5:14 AM
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LOL...No worries 'bout the marriage thing for me, Le Divorce. Never been married, don't wanna be! So sorry for all you've been through.
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on September 4, 2007 at 7:54 PM
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le divorce
Marriage vows mean nothing anymore, a shame. It has become too easy to get divorced.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 4, 2007 at 7:37 PM
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Ive never been married and I think I might just forget about it now lol....thou I have good role models my parents will be married 40 years this month
I love the STD joke lol thou I shouldnt laugh incase that has happened to someone lol
posted by
Problem_Girl
on September 4, 2007 at 7:02 PM
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posted by
riri0322
on September 4, 2007 at 4:39 PM
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There is no gurantee on how a person can change.
posted by
A-and-B
on September 4, 2007 at 3:55 PM
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