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ouuu...nasty lady! I just came back to this comment to see if you
had answered my question and found my comment, well nasty! I didn't mean it that way. Since I began reading you, you've written on love, lost love, preditors, divorce, hate and well, now again predators. By some coincidence you keep bringing up my garbage and in response, honestly I'm just a crappy writer. (I don't intend on giving up my day job anytime soon)! lol.
I wasn't male-bashing nor referring to the gentleman who posed the question either... actually the love, divorce, hate...predators posts brought up an image of several men from my past, but I've known prowling women of ill intent as well. I'm either going to bow out completely or stick to my post regarding natural medicine, which is my original intent for writing here. I did mean it when I said I'm rather slow...... My writing is therapeutic and I'm in my own head when I'm writing. It's my escape from stress. I'm much better off keeping my own head to myself! I'm not an online communicating-type of person either but rather a face to face, relating to body-language, actions speak louder than words, hands-on type person. I've felt a lot like a fish out of water here.
You seem to be a nice man (with strong views & opinions regarding many issues). I'm sure you'll enjoy your time here on Blogit, be a valuable asset and make many, wonderful aquaintences and friends! Enjoy, and excuse my 'garbage' and crappy, consistently questioning comments! 
Take care.
posted by
roadscross
on September 23, 2007 at 5:26 PM
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Just thought I'd peek in to send some well wishes & say a few prayers
for those around who have had heart attacks, are in ill health, going through divorce and are love forelorn. I see now you're a veteran of love & loses. I have a natural tendency to support those who are hurting. Sometimes it's difficult to determine whether someone is going through what they write, sharing past experiences, or fantasy, if not stated as such. I'm just a little slow is all. The intention was honest anyway.
I believe there is a vast difference between mearly letting love slip away by not feeding love (giving love in return) and (or) manipulatively creating 'hate' in a relationship (I'd rather refer to the opposition of love as resentment), in order to walk away and not appear to be the one of ill intent.
Your questions posed reminded me of a comment from a man recently about how he always ends up the 'jerk' in a failed 'relationship'. My initial reaction was in questioning why anyone would be considered a 'jerk' just because the interest wasn't reciprocated? It took me awhile to figure out his comment. (It shouldn't have after twenty years of dating, but the concept or theory comes in many, different, pretty, little neatly wrapped packages).
The inticement is in the hunt and the hunter pursues fervently. Once the trophy is won, the hunter can't just walk away, admitting to his ill intentions. He must become a 'jerk' in order to be released from the obligation, thereby becoming the victim as well as the victor. Hence; my testing time (courting) of true intentions.
I'd like to hear a male, veteran of love & loses' opinion on this 'enticement of the hunt' theory, if you wouldn't mind?
posted by
roadscross
on September 22, 2007 at 1:12 AM
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lustorlove
Well received!!
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 8:09 PM
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offy
Rest sweet one. We will be here
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 8:08 PM
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Re: lustorlove
thats the best I can do for now
posted by
Lanetay
on September 21, 2007 at 7:50 PM
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TK
I am feeling better thank you..but I am tired.
posted by
Offy
on September 21, 2007 at 7:49 PM
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spanish dragon
just stating the facts as I see them......or read them
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:48 PM
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offy
What the heck are you doing blogging young lady!!?? Should'nt you be resting?
It sure is good to see you here!! How are you feeling?
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:48 PM
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lustorlove
I would never turn down a kiss from a lady!!
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:46 PM
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I think you could:
Thank you for the confidence in my writing
posted by
spanish_dragon
on September 21, 2007 at 7:31 PM
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Oh dear..
posted by
Offy
on September 21, 2007 at 7:30 PM
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Re: lustorlove
would you like a nice kiss on the cheek?
posted by
Lanetay
on September 21, 2007 at 7:30 PM
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lustorlove
I got better!!
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:26 PM
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matie
LOL......stuff happens
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:25 PM
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spanish dragon
I have read you many times and think that you certainly could!
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:25 PM
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saul and lovelyladymonk
Thanks!!
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:24 PM
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riri
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:23 PM
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le divorce and MiaElla
It was at the time.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:22 PM
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callista
Happened a long time ago, been there and done it
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:21 PM
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sheilah
Yes sweet lass, I am fine. This was written a long time ago
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:21 PM
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mneme
Thanks! It passed a long time ago
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:20 PM
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justanotherskinny
A bit over the top?
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:19 PM
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chyrlann
I too have experienced loss of a loved one and loss of love. This however was from a love long ago.
As I was going through my divorce, writing was my only salvation.
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:18 PM
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proc
Ah yes dear one. I am fine as this was from a long time ago
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:17 PM
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enigmaic
From a long time ago. Sucks doesn't it?
posted by
Tattered_Knight
on September 21, 2007 at 7:16 PM
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tattered
this is too sad
posted by
Lanetay
on September 21, 2007 at 7:12 PM
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You just can't help the inevitable.
posted by
Matie
on September 21, 2007 at 7:09 PM
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My heart breaks with yours
I could not have ever put the words so precisely
posted by
spanish_dragon
on September 21, 2007 at 6:46 PM
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posted by
lovelyladymonk
on September 21, 2007 at 3:49 PM
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Heartfelt, Tattered.
posted by
saul_relative
on September 21, 2007 at 11:55 AM
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posted by
riri0322
on September 21, 2007 at 9:24 AM
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beautiful but sad
posted by
MiaElla
on September 21, 2007 at 9:03 AM
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How sad!
posted by
le_divorcee
on September 21, 2007 at 8:06 AM
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such a beautiful, brillant or brill as a brit would say, poem
i can hope it is not happening to you.
posted by
callista22001
on September 21, 2007 at 6:04 AM
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beautifuly written and quite sad. Hope you are ok?
posted by
Sheilah
on September 21, 2007 at 5:57 AM
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Tattered Knight
Nicely expressed.. it sounds very lonely.. this too shall pass.
posted by
mneme
on September 21, 2007 at 5:47 AM
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Ooooo.......... such despair.
posted by
justanotherskinnybitch
on September 21, 2007 at 5:28 AM
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The four stages of grief regarding the death of a loved one;
it feels as if it's a dream, you retain hope in living, you move through denial eventually accepting the loss, and then return to dreaming.
I've experienced death and letting go many times these past few years. Much the same as grieving death, such is grieving the death of love. Any professional grief counselor will tell you it's essential for your good health to allow yourself the process. You are familiar with the grieving process.
I wrote of my grieving process here. I know many reading found my writing overly expressive, soul bearing and thought me obsessive, but writing was my therapy, always has been, always will be. Testifying to the process and having it witnessed is part of the process, without judgement of ourselves or the concern of judgement from others. It's okay to greive, it's human and it's healthy.
It's amazing how many times a heart can be shattered, how many times it has to let go and learn to heal, over and over again. It is a true test in how we mend our hearts; whether we piece our broken hearts back together with bitterness, resentment and anger or whether our hearts learn to grow bigger in the process, willing to allow even more love in, because we know over time we heal and the process is not unfamiliar or scary anymore. I believe in allowing oneself to experience the grieving process without judgement of ourselves or from others, is the determining factor in how our hearts mend.
So many tears have fallen over the years, they've left a trail to my heart. My tears have watered my heart and made it grow even bigger & stronger, allowing more love in. Allow yourself to grieve, testify your grieving here if writing helps your process and allow others to support you.
posted by
roadscross
on September 21, 2007 at 12:13 AM
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this sounds like a dark night poem,Tattered. Hope you're okay.
posted by
proc
on September 20, 2007 at 11:28 PM
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T K
I know...
posted by
Enigmatic68
on September 20, 2007 at 11:02 PM
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