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Re: My dear Chris I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through
Hello mariaki! Yes-it was tremendous relief when the haze cleared!!It's been hard work since-making sure I don't 'slip back'-keeping boundaries etc. for although I've changed-it's taking time for the others to 'catch up'? Thanks again.God Bless.Chris.

posted by Scramble on April 16, 2008 at 2:59 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Thank you so much Soul Builder! Chris.

posted by Scramble on April 16, 2008 at 2:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re:Hello Purple Mermaid/Jeanie--many thanks for popping in and 'explaining
I would like to say 'congratulations' to your Daughter for letting us know you were ill!I just was not sure who was speaking for who? Do take care and hope you feel a bit better-very soon! God Bless.Chris.

posted by Scramble on April 16, 2008 at 2:56 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Very astute observation.
Thank you so much cheugon! It's good to have your comments ! Your account of Co-dependency is so clear and precise!As someone living 'in that relationship'-I could not see it-or even describe it-however-as an 'outsider' to it-you are right on target! Very many thanks indeed! Chris.

posted by Scramble on April 16, 2008 at 2:51 AM | link to this | reply

My dear Chris I cannot begin to imagine what you have been through
it must have been an enormous relief when the haze cleared and your positive side won out; endurance and faith is our best ally at these times; thank you for sharing and God bless

posted by mariaki on April 16, 2008 at 2:22 AM | link to this | reply


posted by Soul_Builder101 on April 15, 2008 at 8:32 PM | link to this | reply

hello dear scramble...i am so sorry for the confusion dear, first let me tell you it's so nice to see you at my blog dear, i am not well i have health issues and yesterday was a bad day (til now) my daughter (11yrs old) loves to stick her fingers in everything I do given the chance, yesterday was grand for her. My dear, i am so sorry, i still dont feel well but i feel i have to go after each one my child had fun with last night...I wonder what has she been saying to everyone...she was so crazy-happy feeling smart for being able to do what I do. I sure hope i am not in trouble with anyone dear. The mother is 'me' my dear. Thank you for understand dear. Can't quite give a brilliant input here with your i'd say powerful voice entry dear one....i shall come back soon for more of your post and probably be able to be myself then. Thank you dear. Jeanie/mermaid.

posted by __Purple_Mermaid11__ on April 15, 2008 at 3:52 PM | link to this | reply

Very astute observation.
A perfect depiction of a three-way symbiotic relationship of co-dependency. Every loving relationship involves co-dependency, but, without the manipulation. Love makes us want to be together, but, allows the freedom to choose. Co-dependency is about not allowing for choice. If you all leave and re-unite under different terms, with different expectations, that will be excellent.  Good luck and excellent post, Chris.

posted by metalrat on April 15, 2008 at 2:35 PM | link to this | reply