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That is so sad...especially after just having gone through this with my own Grandmother, who was 95.  She was well one day and in the hospital with a respiratory infection the next.  And passed on only 7 days later.  I know she must treasure her times of tea with you.

posted by RASSE on March 25, 2009 at 9:29 PM | link to this | reply

At that age it is quite possible that M may start thinking of her next great adventure and become more detached from this one until you say goodbye.

posted by callista22001 on March 25, 2009 at 8:46 PM | link to this | reply

It's not the tea
it's the people who share it. She will be better next time.

posted by Whacky on March 25, 2009 at 8:31 PM | link to this | reply

It would be a shame
The loss of people with whom such rituals can be shared is always a tragedy

posted by lionreign on March 25, 2009 at 9:49 AM | link to this | reply

It's so sweet that you share this tea with her!  What a pleasure.  I hope it is just a passing phase, maybe she'll make it next time :)

posted by calia14 on March 25, 2009 at 12:31 AM | link to this | reply

It is the tea making that saves us. Mom is sitting more and that is scarey.

posted by benzinha on March 24, 2009 at 9:39 PM | link to this | reply

I hope she completes a century, with someone as caring as you around. I know a buthcher who is ninity-eight and still going strong.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on March 24, 2009 at 7:48 PM | link to this | reply

What a darling and what a priveledge to know someone of this age.
She may get a little stronger if the weather is mild and she is back in her beloved home. Some people we just expect will always be there, since they always have been,

posted by Kabu on March 24, 2009 at 6:41 PM | link to this | reply

I just hope she is still getting stronger, but slowly from her stay at the hospital. But who knows for certain! What a lovely way to spend time with her. sam

posted by sam444 on March 24, 2009 at 4:12 PM | link to this | reply

rector, I'm sure you've seen it all, and never really get used to it...
It really must be heart breaking at times.....

posted by Rumor on March 24, 2009 at 4:09 PM | link to this | reply

I guess we do not know until something sadly happens.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on March 24, 2009 at 3:25 PM | link to this | reply

  After surgery I identified with a senior woman in physical therapy. She insisted on her morning cup of coffee. BCA, Bill*s Roost

 

posted by BC-A on March 24, 2009 at 2:46 PM | link to this | reply

You deal with so much sadness, so often. Bless your heart.

posted by hazel_st_cricket on March 24, 2009 at 2:18 PM | link to this | reply

What a wonderful woman she must be to still be interested in what others are doing at such an advanced age! Perhaps that's what's kept her going? You give us some very interesting insights about your work; thank you.

posted by elinjo on March 24, 2009 at 2:08 PM | link to this | reply

It would be truly sad.

posted by metalrat on March 24, 2009 at 2:07 PM | link to this | reply