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Very unpleasant situation, and being sort of in the midst of things without your doing must be very uncomfortable...
posted by
Nautikos
on April 19, 2009 at 4:22 PM
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I think there will be more discussions down the road! It may be less stressful for Josh but I don't see where this is a boon for your dad at all! Josh should have waited as agreed! October will be interesting to say the least! sam
posted by
sam444
on April 19, 2009 at 3:03 PM
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I know your dad and Josh are/were good friends, but I think it would be hard to live without the back pay, not knowing the whole story of why he owed him the money other than the fact business was bad. Now if you are speaking legal matters, dad could get in trouble for not paying him and Josh could get him for that. Its hard mixing friendship with business.
posted by
Lanetay
on April 19, 2009 at 9:41 AM
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Your Dad is between the proverbial "rock and a hard place"
...and if not for dire need, I'm sure Josh would be history.
posted by
metalrat
on April 19, 2009 at 9:13 AM
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It seems there's never a quiet moment! I hope your dad's feeling better now.
posted by
elinjo
on April 19, 2009 at 8:51 AM
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If you learn, any separation will not have to be calamitous!
posted by
Soul_Builder101
on April 19, 2009 at 12:02 AM
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A good thing about all of this is that you are learning much from each
situation...harrowing at times but you will benefit from it all in ways you may not be aware of right now...hang in there!
posted by
teddypoet_TheGoodByeFade
on April 18, 2009 at 11:14 PM
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Man. ., this is the reason you're not supposed to do business or loan money
to friends. It ruins so many friendships.
posted by
Joe_Love
on April 18, 2009 at 11:09 PM
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You're placed in a situation where u are able to see both sides of the
story or at least are trying to!
posted by
Straightforward
on April 18, 2009 at 10:37 PM
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I hope your Dad's feeling better soon, and that peace prevails between them soon too.

Your Dad sounds like a busy guy.
posted by
yellowrose55
on April 18, 2009 at 10:19 PM
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WOW !! Sounds like the shit really hit the fan both ways !!!
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on April 18, 2009 at 8:47 PM
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I agree with Troosha's comment. It sounds like things have been pretty interesting over there. I wish your Dad the fastest recovery.
posted by
calia14
on April 18, 2009 at 8:13 PM
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I'm sorry your dad had all this stress after his hip replacement surgery. You sound very supportive to him.
posted by
mariposa75
on April 18, 2009 at 7:52 PM
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Challenge anyone’s integrity and things are likely to get ugly but what a shame that two best friends should have such a falling out over money. Money… it does strange things to people.
posted by
Troosha
on April 18, 2009 at 7:05 PM
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