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Tears are a natural response... never be too hard on yourself.
posted by
mneme
on June 30, 2009 at 11:56 PM
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Through It All is the law of life love. BCA, BillJRoost
posted by
BC-A
on June 30, 2009 at 8:42 AM
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Keep going!
If after 15 years a marriage hasn't worked, it will never do.
posted by
elinjo
on June 30, 2009 at 4:39 AM
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I know this sounds awful, but let the tears come. they are the bodys way of releasing the mind from its cage. you cannot see the sky until the clouds surrender all they have. Being strong doesnt mean not crying, even if it feels like crying makes us hurt more, and maybe it does. But not crying holds in the pain, pain that will only have to faced again another day. Im glade that you are strong enough to see through his smoke. I applaude you putting your children first, and stepping forth to get your freedom. My parents divorced when i was about that age, believe me us kids are very observant, and im sure tho they will be hurting as well they will be proud of your bravery as well. I did, and i am so thankful that my mom showed me what it is to put your children first, by not sticking with a man she wasnt happy with. She showed me that im not chained to a mistake i make, even in marriage. She never made him the bad guy, she made it about her life, happiness, and self worth. Some people think running from problems in marriage makes for a shallow person with no streanth or moral character...but being her child im glade my mom was strong enough to set the example that sometimes being strong means walking away, accepting the truth as opposed to denying it and forcing misery on everyone involved. Kodoos hun, and good luck.
A toat to ur new found freedom
posted by
murphys_law_breaker8
on June 29, 2009 at 9:45 PM
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First timeI have visited you and please know that my heart goes out to
you. I've been there and the whole process is so awful. Blogitis such a dearplace toshare forhere there is support and caring and very little judgement.
posted by
Kabu
on June 29, 2009 at 1:32 PM
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