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Ciel
That's so funny! I know that my husband TOTALLY reminds me of my older sister. They're both kind of bossy (and both the oldest). Sibling rivalry, indeed!
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Darson
on October 4, 2009 at 12:14 PM
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Re: Ciel
Heh--I got it about siblings when, in a raging row with my husband I accidentally called him by my sister's name. I don't have a partnership, I have a sibling rivalry.
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Ciel
on October 3, 2009 at 8:39 PM
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Ciel
Wow this is a lot of good food for thought...animals and houseplants are very telling, indeed...and the sibling thought is brilliant. You can pull off a good-sounding/looking relationship with hunting buddies, neighbors, etc...but not family or plants. You're very wise.
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Darson
on October 3, 2009 at 1:00 PM
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isis Eyes
That dawned on me the other day...that there might just be something to that...and I agree, it could always be worse!!! Thanks, Isis!
posted by
Darson
on October 3, 2009 at 12:58 PM
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uh oh... scary thought. It explains
so many things, but could be worse.
posted by
myrrhage_
on October 3, 2009 at 11:07 AM
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Good point-- look both ways before committing!
though there are many observations to make when considering how someone will be overall in the course of a life, especially a shared one.
How do they interact with animals? and do they have healthy houseplants?
How do they treat their stuff? How do they treat other people's stuff?
In the course of my married life, I have realized it is very significant also to check out their relationships and dynamics with their siblings.
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Ciel
on October 3, 2009 at 5:23 AM
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Re: FormerStudentIntern
Thanks, FSI...have you found there to be any truth to it, in your opinion? Just curious...
posted by
Darson
on October 2, 2009 at 11:32 AM
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An important interaction to take note of.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on October 1, 2009 at 7:02 PM
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Re: adnohr
Yeah, I've seen that, too.
posted by
Darson
on October 1, 2009 at 6:26 PM
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Odd. Most of the guys I've met are treated okay by the mom...it was the
dad's who screwed up their attitudes!
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adnohr
on October 1, 2009 at 2:50 PM
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Re: elinjo
Curious as to whether others think that rings true at all. That has been my experience; what do you think?
posted by
Darson
on October 1, 2009 at 8:45 AM
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Re: vogue
Thank you, Vogue!

Now try to convince my teenagers of that...!
posted by
Darson
on October 1, 2009 at 8:44 AM
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Shrewd observation!
posted by
elinjo
on October 1, 2009 at 7:45 AM
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I'm sure you have a point.
posted by
vogue
on October 1, 2009 at 12:51 AM
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Re: 9STAR
Thank you, 9STAR!
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Darson
on September 30, 2009 at 8:11 PM
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posted by
Star5_
on September 30, 2009 at 7:10 PM
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Re: BC-A
That's what one would hope for, for sure. Thanks BC-A!
posted by
Darson
on September 30, 2009 at 6:09 PM
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Hopefully lovingness love. BC-A, Bill’s RJJst
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BC-A
on September 30, 2009 at 8:20 AM
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