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It's both sad and painful when we don't want to see what should be clear
to us
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on February 21, 2010 at 1:15 PM
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$ I guess smile as much as you can handle love. BC-A, Bill’s R:):(st
posted by
BC-A
on February 18, 2010 at 6:30 PM
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this is from your heart - and I see here Love has no pride, which is part of Love. I hope the best for you T-Z ~ Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on February 17, 2010 at 10:15 PM
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Yes, Kobie is a charmer and perfect romancer
but does he have any character behind the glamour, thats where the important stuff lies, you guys are very perceptive all of you, and I love your input, it is encouraging and soothing.
posted by
Tzippy
on February 17, 2010 at 10:11 PM
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I am screaming inside for you and full of dear Dorothy advice....all wasted
because this has to run its course. Rashionally we all know that if one in a relationship is starting to cool,it's over Kobie I think must enjoy the chase. The clinging annoys ,irritates him.I COULD SLAP HIM!
posted by
Kabu
on February 17, 2010 at 6:47 PM
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Hi,
You deserve to be treated so much better, and more respectfully.
posted by
Amanda__
on February 17, 2010 at 4:19 PM
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Oh yes.
The old thing of letting go. Then we see what comes back to us
posted by
Azur
on February 17, 2010 at 3:06 PM
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Relationships are so very complicated! Many times we do not see the light of day until we are removed from it! sam
posted by
sam444
on February 17, 2010 at 2:56 PM
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A slow burn the whole process is what I sense from reading this.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on February 17, 2010 at 12:01 PM
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Yes, you are all right of course
I would have not suffered if I was not as needy and vulnerable as I was. And I would not have let someone take advantage of me either. But the price is so high that you either learn or die...
posted by
Tzippy
on February 17, 2010 at 10:37 AM
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Your worth is in the love you give
posted by
cpklapper
on February 17, 2010 at 9:44 AM
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wow he did have a way to charm you didnt he
posted by
Lanetay
on February 17, 2010 at 9:23 AM
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Ohhhh who hasn't been through this? I got the feeling from the many former girlfriends we met up with accidentally while I was dating my future husband, that he was not a good 'breaker-offer'....some of them seemed perplexed to see us together, and even a bit hurt...I don't think he ever told them 'no', he just didn't answer their phone calls and faded out....very not okay. I couldn't understand why they were all so aggressive and inquisitive until I figured that one out...he never actually said 'good bye'.
posted by
Darson
on February 17, 2010 at 8:38 AM
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Tzippy
Yes, it's a dreadful situation to be in, and the worst part is that there really is no help - one has to go through trough it alone! That's why, even when I am asked, I won't give advice to the lovelorn...
posted by
Nautikos
on February 17, 2010 at 7:17 AM
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it really is awful to be in a place like this
and the painful journey stops when you take off the blinders. But how do you take off the blinders when you are lost in the agonizing world...
posted by
Tzippy
on February 17, 2010 at 5:57 AM
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It seems like it's always like that in the begining huh?
posted by
PoetikliNclynd
on February 17, 2010 at 5:15 AM
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Yeah, right. Happy Birthday. (or not)
posted by
Pat_B
on February 17, 2010 at 5:11 AM
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I lived that for a year and a half before I learned that I deserved better.
It is awful to live through it and be addicted to a man's pheromones. I finally broke that addiction and took off my blinders and a whole new world of unimaginable love came to me, His name was Richard. It is a love made in Heaven.
posted by
skye08
on February 17, 2010 at 12:18 AM
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