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I also had to go through a period in my life where I had
to learn to trust men again.
Learning to forgive was not the easiest thing in the world...but I managed, somehow.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on February 27, 2010 at 6:23 PM
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I think that the lesson I learned while growing up was...........
to still love as deeply, but not to give up my independent full life for the fellows. And, yes I did say fellows. It doesn't happen just once to some of us.
posted by
benzinha
on February 25, 2010 at 2:54 PM
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I think that a relationship and an ending like that
is necessary for our growth, I have had a similar experience - the details differ but the emotions are the same.
posted by
lionreign
on February 25, 2010 at 9:03 AM
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I went with a guy for about a year until his exwife wanted him back and he left me hanging, I felt like you and after that I was hurt again and again, now I am trying to get over that pain, and trying to go slow
posted by
Lanetay
on February 24, 2010 at 8:50 PM
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WOW ! Love the way you write !
I'll work on catching up on your blog. I, like you read and was very into " Out On A Limb". Love self discovery. It is never ending and always a refreshing awakening. xooxoxox
posted by
hazel_st_cricket
on February 24, 2010 at 8:37 PM
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Getting over a relationship is hard...I find it amazing we can be that resilent.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on February 24, 2010 at 7:46 PM
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I am here reading the last - the final curtain call and I read the smooth operator and a few inbetween...touching and it's good you write of this ~ healing is so important. Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on February 24, 2010 at 8:47 AM
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And so the dawn breaks
on a new day in your life.
Enjoy!
Carl Peter
posted by
cpklapper
on February 24, 2010 at 8:36 AM
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How marvellous that you got free of this
These things can be suffocating and swallow you up
posted by
Azur
on February 24, 2010 at 5:59 AM
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+ I understand and have been at both ends. However time’s the great healer. lol love. BC-A, Bill’s Roost
posted by
BC-A
on February 24, 2010 at 5:23 AM
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You are better off without someone who is not sincere! It is just too bad it consumed you so! I hope Jacob is a fine man! You are so deserving! sam
posted by
sam444
on February 24, 2010 at 4:48 AM
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So now, no doubt, your BS detector is working for you,
and you can spot a player like old what's-his-name a mile away.
posted by
Pat_B
on February 24, 2010 at 4:28 AM
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What a terrible experience - you were betrayed so thoroughly by someone you loved and trusted utterly. But Jacob sounds terrific, someone who can really be trusted.
posted by
Rockingrector_retd
on February 24, 2010 at 3:33 AM
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It is so hard to be rejected and then to learn to trust again
What a terrible experience for you!!!! I'm so glad you came through it and found someone. You are so strong and have definitely moved to a higher plane spiritually. Life lessons are hard sometimes but we come equipped to handle all that we encounter in this lifetime even though when we are going through it all, we do get to a breaking point. You have been made stronger by this trial by fire.
posted by
skye08
on February 24, 2010 at 1:13 AM
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T Zippy
Do not expect anyone to meet your needs, make you happy or be more important to you than life, ever. The only being who can be this is Jesus Christ. Please don't take what I am about to say as a preachy thing, but the only balm to heal what you have is the confidence of a relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the only way you can really get in touch with your value. He died to erase your sins if you will let him. He died to heal you and all your wounds if you will let him. He loves you as no other ever will and he wants you to find the right man for you, he will help in that effort. God bless you dear one, that is more pain than anyone needs to have to bear.
posted by
Justi
on February 23, 2010 at 10:55 PM
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Tzippy - this is a story of life..I have seen so many heartaches and pain like this. I'm glad you have found someone new. Time does heal..only there again, in time.
posted by
shobana
on February 23, 2010 at 10:49 PM
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Gosh Tzippy, sometimes I wonder if I will also be receiving
such a curtain call.
posted by
Straightforward
on February 23, 2010 at 10:27 PM
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I expect that he eventually tired of Sharon too ......she probably divorced
her husband for him....he's a magnet and for him it is the chase. I expect it hurt soterribly because you needed him so much and he really worked to get you to love him. You were so vulnerable.....I am pinning my hopes on Jocob.
posted by
Kabu
on February 23, 2010 at 10:02 PM
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