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I agree with Justi comment
posted by
StrickGold
on March 4, 2010 at 12:36 PM
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Sweetheart, miracles happen daily for those who give the honor to the Lord.
Glad you were blessed.
posted by
Justi
on March 3, 2010 at 12:56 AM
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Hi Darson, I was deeply moved by your poignant account. Thankyou.
posted by
The_Saint
on March 2, 2010 at 10:07 PM
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Darson
Beating that speeding ticket was terrific, kinda helped your faith I think. Great kiddo.....
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 2, 2010 at 8:36 PM
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I am so glad that you had a great day, especially after some ugly ones.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on March 2, 2010 at 4:53 PM
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Here goes one more thing we have in common
I never took my x to court for child support, god has always provided and yes, he did stop paying altogether at one point thinking I am a sucker.
Be careful not to mix generosity with fear. You are an amazing woman, and God, of course, will always provide. But don't give away what is rightfully yours and the children's,
I did not want to deal with all the courts either lol, we do have a lot in common, however, he does have a moral obligation to support his children. What I did is just turned it all over to the DA and I walked away. The DA dealt with it, for many years I did not get paid, but than the DA gave him no more choices and he had to pay a minimal amount etc etc. For me that was easier than courts and hassels.
posted by
Tzippy
on March 2, 2010 at 2:10 PM
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I am moved to tears Darson ~ Grace under duress - stress --- add that to your virtue crown. Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on March 2, 2010 at 9:19 AM
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Bravo, my friend!
posted by
lovelyladymonk
on March 2, 2010 at 8:54 AM
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Just perfect..
posted by
Katray2
on March 2, 2010 at 7:21 AM
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Thank you for your thank you :-) and now that's done... thank you for this post came to me at a time I really needed to realize the perspective of things. You touched my heart with your honesty and grace of spirit Darson. I will pray for you and ask G-d to give you everything that you so richly deserve. xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on March 2, 2010 at 7:10 AM
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BC-A
...Haven't heard of HER...! Wow, that's one I hadn't ever thought of, but I'll bet a lot of women did....a ring worth several thousand, her's to keep?...and then repeating the process with someone else? She must be breaking hearts and raking in the dough. I'd stink at that scam, though...not a good liar, as previously discussed...Wouldn't ever try it...love's nothing to mess with...
posted by
Darson
on March 2, 2010 at 6:13 AM
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Kabu
That's just what I needed to hear. Of course it will be best for them. I was basically thinking of my angle of it...OF COURSE it's best for them, the innocent party. To be able to say that their parents were never embroiled in a court battle. Yes, yes. You've hit the nail right on the head, Mama Kabu.
...As usual.....!
posted by
Darson
on March 2, 2010 at 6:11 AM
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shobana
You are far, far too kind....like I said...this was NOT my idea. My worldly way of thinking says to take the guy for everything he 'owes' me. But my craving peace and a way to forgive is outweighing that...being bitter isn't worth it...health issues and migraines...I would rather just 'let go', as I've been advised. It's either that or be miserable for the rest of my days.
posted by
Darson
on March 2, 2010 at 6:09 AM
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Love, there seems to be a trend in odd scams from your husband's child support summons to one on the news about a woman that gets men to propose for engagement rings. In any event I wish the case resolved for you both to live in peace. Take care. BC-A, Bill's Roost
posted by
BC-A
on March 1, 2010 at 10:12 PM
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the ones who will benefit will be the children. Having their parents in
court is really rough on them. and of course you win too....in self respect ....ex. man must be feeling short on that .....exman's wife is a lost cause.
posted by
Kabu
on March 1, 2010 at 8:12 PM
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What a sweetheart you are Darson. I bet everyone wants to be known with all those qualities when their time is up. As you lay your troubles at His feet, I'm sure all things will be solved.
posted by
shobana
on March 1, 2010 at 7:53 PM
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