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Liz - it is the drugs and the manipulation going on here. It's part of the 'de-tox' - thats chemical imbalance speaking - sadly it's a whole lot of anger and you name it. The emotions are all around out there and raw right now. He's scared too - scared of what he all he must do to get it 'right' again. I pray hard for you and for the children - for your Carlos and for great miracles of healing. I tell you - no matter, keeping in prayer for YOU is most important. Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on February 7, 2011 at 6:01 AM
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Kabu is right...it is the drugs
Not the drugs in his system, but the one's he's craving more than life right now.
His actions towards you are probably a desperate plea for you to take him back. Since you refused to come get him, he is now trying to "guilt" you into it.
HE IS NOT WELL or he wouldn't be there, right?
You have to remember that. If you want the man back that you love, you have to let him work through this. Take the nasty things he says with a grain of salt. He is going through a very difficult time and is desperate and will likely say many things he does not mean.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on February 6, 2011 at 5:57 PM
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Re: you just vent away, he is trying to manipulate you of course...he will
how can i say it is the drugs when he has gone thorugh detox already? shouldnt that be out of his system?
posted by
lizzylie
on February 6, 2011 at 5:32 PM
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you just vent away, he is trying to manipulate you of course...he will
use every trick he can to get those drugs.
Cry and cry but keep saying to yourself.....it is the drugs talking, the drugs talking, the drugs. Sending my prayers and a big hug.
posted by
Kabu
on February 6, 2011 at 4:30 PM
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