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Butterfly,

Trust is essential in marriage.

posted by Amanda__ on November 15, 2011 at 4:26 AM | link to this | reply

Butterfly - think about what YOU really want now. Then take steps to get it.

posted by adnohr on November 14, 2011 at 9:54 PM | link to this | reply

I didn't stay....twice. I was totally faithful in both marriages

but as soon as I was confronted with adultery..I left. The second one was more than that and is a long story but basically when the line was crossed I was gone. Now of course life is as good as it gets.

posted by Kabu on November 14, 2011 at 5:31 PM | link to this | reply

I am not certain that a marriage can function without trust. I suppose that one can turn a blind eye, but I don't see how a marriage could be a good one if that happens...Here is to hoping that things sort themselves out.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on November 14, 2011 at 12:47 PM | link to this | reply

He does need help if he is hiding and gambling. You two need some nice time together it appears to me. Set up a dinner out and make arrangements ask him to go with you. Go to the Casino with him, you don't have to gamble. Maybe he is lonely it sure seems you may be. God bless you both.

posted by Justi on November 14, 2011 at 10:41 AM | link to this | reply