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Re: Re: I think that this started for you with the Church huggy thing and made the
yes, but you are human and have the right to your feelings as well. 
posted by
Kabu
on July 9, 2012 at 10:13 PM
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Butterfly 1950
Thank you for your comment to my post. You really are in my prayers luv. God Bless you.
posted by
WileyJohn
on July 9, 2012 at 7:20 PM
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You know Butterfly, you can still love someone even if the relationship itself is toxic. Also, I've been seeing my therapist for 6 years. It took me almost 4 years to be able to open up completely to her about my emotions. She told me I have post traumatic stress disorder. It doesn't take much to trigger a memory and I am right back to being in my early twenties and in a destructive relationship.
posted by
tamijo
on July 9, 2012 at 6:43 PM
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I have to admit that I am not sure what to advise and will defer to Kabu and Sham.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 9, 2012 at 9:12 AM
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Re: I think that this started for you with the Church huggy thing and made the
I was thinking the same thing. Yes, it was on my mind most of the day and this was the "icing on the cake". I know it wasn't his fault and so I need to draw comfort from his attitude at the time. Thanks,
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on July 9, 2012 at 8:18 AM
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Re: Ah yes the green-eyed monster jealousy
Thank you for your comment and referal. I will look at it.
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on July 9, 2012 at 8:15 AM
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I think that this started for you with the Church huggy thing and made the
matter worse. At least hubby wanted to leave quick and was thinking of you not her. That is a positive.
posted by
Kabu
on July 9, 2012 at 8:09 AM
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Ah yes the green-eyed monster jealousy
One suggestion is to focus on how your husband was totally considerate of your needs and feelings and how he got you both out of there asap.
Also I suggest Gay and Katie Hendricks as one of the best couple resources. Check them out with a google search on their names.
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on July 9, 2012 at 6:10 AM
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