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It's tough to let go of people we love! At least they have an understanding and you as well, it does make things better than way! When dislike enters the picture nothing good comes of it for me! sam 

posted by sam444 on September 12, 2012 at 1:56 PM | link to this | reply

You are so right, food4thought.

What one feels at the moment is not quite the same. Much of the journaling I am doing right here in Blogit!

posted by adnohr on August 14, 2012 at 2:49 AM | link to this | reply

I think it is aging, Wiley

Although I would maybe not have been to quick to agree when I was a young poulette!

posted by adnohr on August 14, 2012 at 2:46 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Now you've done it! Made me cry... But in a good way.

One thing I am so thankful for, and that is how solid & loving my family is. It's so much easier to tackle the world!

posted by adnohr on August 14, 2012 at 2:44 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr...

I'm sure you must be journaling these life experiences and keeping them. I have found that the feelings one has immediately are not the ones that would be recorded even a few days later. The added value of that history is priceless.

posted by food4thought on August 12, 2012 at 11:49 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr

Amongst all 3 of you that relationship may find that strong love they need for one another. My feelings about love and marriage is that if a person can see that a marriage is a service to God, by serving your mate, male and female, we are serving God. Nothing will go wrong. Perhaps it is aging that gives us that.

posted by WileyJohn on August 11, 2012 at 9:03 PM | link to this | reply

Now you've done it! Made me cry... But in a good way.

If only all families could be loving in such a torn up time. Hugs to you Adnohr, I admire the way you think!

posted by Pat_B on August 11, 2012 at 12:22 PM | link to this | reply

The more, the merrier, C.C.

Come join the crowd. You'll feel right at home - it's raining here at the moment.

posted by adnohr on August 11, 2012 at 11:03 AM | link to this | reply

It is sad really Adnohr, but the the rug rats are getting more love than they would than if a house was filled with tension. Makes me wish I was a rug rat

posted by C_C_T on August 11, 2012 at 7:44 AM | link to this | reply

The little devil! I knew if any of them would try it, it would be Bali!

I can remember doing the same when my mom would come to visit. I guess you're right - kids need that assurance of limits, even though they do things to test them out. I don't expect it will be the last time, LOL!

posted by adnohr on August 11, 2012 at 5:24 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Justi has put this pretty perfect and I am proud of you maintaining the

posted by adnohr on August 11, 2012 at 5:19 AM | link to this | reply

Thank you, Justi

We have a solid family structure, and I expect that is what will make it all turn out okay in the end.

posted by adnohr on August 11, 2012 at 5:19 AM | link to this | reply

Heck, yes! Plenty I can't do, TAPS,

but as I get older, they seem to matter less, LOL. Thank you for the compliment!

posted by adnohr on August 11, 2012 at 5:17 AM | link to this | reply

Justi has put this pretty perfect and I am proud of you maintaining the

rules of your house. Cos I feel so deeply for the DIL and all the problems for her and your son and all...(been there and it ain't fun) but as I was told at the time, this is all for the little boys. That rug rat was so hoping that your rules would apply even though Mama was there, he is desperate for your boundaries so he feels safe.

posted by Kabu on August 10, 2012 at 8:33 PM | link to this | reply

Adnohr

This is the most wonderful post. You are a good woman. I do hope all works out well for all six of you. You are the kingpin of this whole works. You give me hope for this next generation. May you and the other five be blessed.

posted by Justi on August 10, 2012 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

Wonderful post.  You are a great mother, MIL, grandmother and doggie mom.  Is there anything you can't do?

posted by TAPS. on August 10, 2012 at 1:35 PM | link to this | reply

His dad was taking the picture.

They make that sign to each other all the time. It means 'I love you'. Bali uses it whenever everything is going his way. He's not allowed to use the other sign when things AREN't going his way, LOL!

posted by adnohr on August 10, 2012 at 1:12 PM | link to this | reply

Yes, FSI

They are both being very careful to keep the children happy. I used to hate going to the dentist!

posted by adnohr on August 10, 2012 at 1:10 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

Lovely picture! But isb't he using the wrong 2 fingers? 

posted by Pannonian on August 10, 2012 at 1:02 PM | link to this | reply

The photo brings me back to dental trips from when I was a kid...It's good that they are factoring the children in how they talk to one another.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on August 10, 2012 at 12:38 PM | link to this | reply