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Wishing you and your family much happiness and success living together! It will never be a dull moment at your house! 

posted by Butterfly-1950 on October 13, 2012 at 7:40 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for explaining UtahJay - and I understand now...

I'd been living practically alone - and now have a family of 5, including 3 little ones under 7 years old, and another dog, a cat (moved in yesterday), and a parrot and fish on their way to joining us too...Intimidating? Or just downright scary sometimes? Yep!!  

posted by adnohr on October 13, 2012 at 4:42 AM | link to this | reply

Just meaning that change, even a good change has a way of making us think more than we should sometimes, worrying if things don't go as planned. At least this old worry wort does. Sorry if I said it wrong.

posted by UtahJay on October 13, 2012 at 12:47 AM | link to this | reply

True, JimmyA

And we use 'em all!! ANy excuse to get together and party!!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:35 PM | link to this | reply

She has always had it in her, Justi.

As my son says, she is not changing, she is just realising what was happening, and is taking steps to fix it. She is a brave lass, with her heart in the right place...she just needed to find it.

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:34 PM | link to this | reply

Intimidation, UtahJay??

How so?

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:33 PM | link to this | reply

You know it isn't all easy, TAPS.

But it's getting better...and that counts! I expect it will get easier as we go along.

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:31 PM | link to this | reply

LOL - either one Straightforward!

Both are good!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:29 PM | link to this | reply

Actually, Kabu, I am seeing what she was going through, some of it

by lack of knowing what to do, I guess. SO far, so good! You guys are all special too!! I can't believe he ate them all!!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:28 PM | link to this | reply

LOL, WIley - In my present situation

sometimes being alone now & then is not a bad thing!!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:25 PM | link to this | reply

Oh yeh, Nautijkos

Mine was big, and so was my son's!!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

Yep - there's always bumps in the road, CCT

but caring and respect are the tools to negotiate those bumps!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:23 PM | link to this | reply

It's nice to host family & friends, isn't it, FSI?

We will use any occasion to get together!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:22 PM | link to this | reply

It really is looking like it will happen, Pat_B,

I love the girl, and hope it does. They are both trying and the little lads are soooo happy!

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:21 PM | link to this | reply

True, I guess food4thought

But here in QUebec the Quebecois don't really celebrate it - although most English speaking families do. It is much bigger in USA...or even other provinces in Canada.

posted by adnohr on October 12, 2012 at 5:20 PM | link to this | reply

See? Sometimes ya just never know! Certain traditions can have a way of bringing . . . or keeping . . . families together.

posted by JimmyA on October 12, 2012 at 5:23 AM | link to this | reply

Beautiful Queen Mother

You are working miracles there. That was so great to have your DIL helping, doing things she has not wanted to do before. It is great. You have many gifts dear lady.

posted by Justi on October 12, 2012 at 2:11 AM | link to this | reply

I can see the happiness in your words, the smile on your post, which of course makes me smile too. I also see just a wee bit of intimidation, but worry not it will work out if you all want it to...Right?

posted by UtahJay on October 12, 2012 at 12:07 AM | link to this | reply

Such a great report...and you make it all sound so easy. 

posted by TAPS. on October 11, 2012 at 4:34 PM | link to this | reply

Great going, adnohr. Or should I say great coming?

posted by Straightforward on October 11, 2012 at 4:12 PM | link to this | reply

perhaps she will be able to cope much better with your unflappable

self there so that she feels there is more support for her. Someone else does some of the kitchen or the children she doesn't feel trapped or that she will be judged and has lacked the self esteem to believe in what she can do who she can cope with. I just pray for you all to become a happy healthy in mind and body family.You are very sepcial to us...

ps he ate all the lamingtons!!!!

posted by Kabu on October 11, 2012 at 3:43 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

I'm just happy you're not lonesome and alone. God Bless you sis.

posted by WileyJohn on October 11, 2012 at 2:19 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

It's great to see the sun rising again over that relationship, and I'm sure your smile was HUGE...

posted by Nautikos on October 11, 2012 at 11:18 AM | link to this | reply

Not so good being alone is it adnohr, nothing will ever run smoothly, but it is as good as it gets. 

posted by C_C_T on October 11, 2012 at 11:01 AM | link to this | reply

That is nice how you all had a Thanksgiving get together. I like having them at my house.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on October 11, 2012 at 9:44 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, I'm smiling, but there are tears in my eyes. I'm very hopeful

and touched... What a sweet post, dear Adnohr. :)

posted by Pat_B on October 11, 2012 at 9:13 AM | link to this | reply

Cool...

I wish they would move our thanksgivng, better weather, more time till Christmas.

posted by food4thought on October 11, 2012 at 9:06 AM | link to this | reply