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adnohr

I couldn't comment with anything more helpful that what 'Ciel' did and you know you are in my prayers.

posted by WileyJohn on January 14, 2013 at 2:39 PM | link to this | reply

I suppose that's only natural. And I guess only a grandmother could look forward to "sticky kisses!" 

posted by JimmyA on January 13, 2013 at 10:53 AM | link to this | reply

Here is to hoping for the best.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on January 13, 2013 at 9:37 AM | link to this | reply

...and the river flows on...

and Time does what only Time can do....

Cycles, phases... there will always be knock-outs, and there will always be smiles...   Your son has choices to make, and I believe you and I agree on the theory that learning to make choices is what we are here for.  

When my daughter's man, and father of her toddler moved on some years ago, she was frustrated and angry and in grief, and said that what rankled the most was that he was getting all that he wanted, despite being despicable about it.  I told her, a day will come when he has nothing he wants, and you will have it all.  And so it is proving out, as far as their relationship goes, and his with his daughter. 

What your son has and his wife does not (though I daresay she could if she weren't in such competition) is you. You and he and the kids will be fine. She might have to struggle a while longer, before she gets whatever her lesson is.

posted by Ciel on January 13, 2013 at 9:33 AM | link to this | reply

Crossing my fingers for your son, grandsons & you. Love will win.

posted by Pat_B on January 13, 2013 at 3:35 AM | link to this | reply

Ha ha found your blog good idea. Family matters are always a pain in the ass Adnohr.

One can only hope it will blow over, It is like treading on thin ice.  

posted by C_C_T on January 13, 2013 at 1:19 AM | link to this | reply

adnohr

Sutting my mouth because my solutions are illegal. But, my prayers are for y'all.

posted by WileyJohn on January 12, 2013 at 8:35 PM | link to this | reply

I like it when mama-worry metamorphoses into mama-concern and takes

off into a healthier framework of relationships.

posted by Straightforward on January 12, 2013 at 7:16 PM | link to this | reply

I am sorry to hear about your son's troubles but I am happy your dear rugrats will be visiting.  Those sticky kisses and warm huggs will keep that smile on your face... Be well  xoxoxo

posted by Sinome on January 12, 2013 at 7:06 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

I am really very sorry to hear that! I don't know what to suggest - actually, I am always at a complete loss when it comes to other people's matters of the heart and family - I can barely deal with my own, LOL. But I'm sure you will enjoy your very cure rug rats...

posted by Nautikos on January 12, 2013 at 7:00 PM | link to this | reply

Kabu is right, you are a great mother, and I think your son is great father too. I feel he only did what he thought he had to do...Things well get better for all of you I pray.

posted by UtahJay on January 12, 2013 at 6:46 PM | link to this | reply

You are a great Mother and of course the Lady in the piece is the trouble.

She has got it all. The house the children and his wages. but enjoy the Rug Rats tomorrow.

posted by Kabu on January 12, 2013 at 6:22 PM | link to this | reply

My goodness, if it ends up being her, and there's no reason not to think that it isn't, I hope he is able to move to save his sanity! And, good to see you will be having a separate blog; when's the next installment? I admire that you will be there for him, it makes you a great mother, too! sam xxxx

posted by sam444 on January 12, 2013 at 6:18 PM | link to this | reply