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I second Kabu's comment. Even when it's difficult, we have to remind ourselves that there is lovely energy in doing good things, and thinking the right thoughts.
posted by
adnohr
on March 27, 2013 at 7:31 AM
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Re: Butterfly 50
You are probably right, Wiley. If I had left all of this behind me, I don't think I would have had near as much to deal with 5 years later but since I "chose" to stay, I guess it's unavoidable to not have "reminders" of the past pop up ever now & then; especially, when the other woman chose to come into our lives like she did last Nov. But what I've learned from all this, is to let go and turn these thoughts & feelings into good things more quickly and recognize that God is really in control of everything in my life; good or bad and if I will Patiently wait on Him, HE will lead me through anything. Many months ago, I actually drove to another town seeking a "preacher" to talk to about my problems of anger & grief...... and out of all those churches I stopped at, it seemed like the doors closed for me to talk to someone verbally. And the phrase, God is the Great Counselor of all, kept coming to my mind so I let it go but still read many books on forgiving and trusting and accepting my lot in this life. That's how I find peace is knowing what ever comes to me each day, God is right here with me holding my hand as we walk through it. I am gaining more trust in my husband and that's a good thing but I know that is going to take time. Thanks for your concern and comments. May you have a very blessed day. The sun is shining here! 
posted by
Butterfly-1950
on March 26, 2013 at 8:16 AM
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Butterfly 50
I am sorry you're still living that situation kiddo. Wouldn't it be a good idea to talk with a psychotherapist? I mean a real one, not somebody that's just preaching the Bible. 
posted by
WileyJohn
on March 25, 2013 at 6:21 PM
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I do agree and it is no where near as exhausting as thinking depressing
thoughts. To do something that feels good.
posted by
Kabu
on March 25, 2013 at 5:43 PM
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That is very nice to do that for the man at your church.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on March 25, 2013 at 4:37 PM
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