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People sometimes refer to this as "bad language." I don't think there's any such thing. We're adults, and this is the language we use to express anger, rage and frustration. It's rarely a personal attack, as in your case. I know sometimes I feel a little better after a curse-filled venting! It's probably better than smashing something . . .
posted by
JimmyA
on July 15, 2013 at 6:55 AM
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Probably not dreaming you would say such a thing it was just what was needed. I would probably do the same, but never call one as such. Although to be honest donkey's years ago we were only lads conscripted and every second word we spoke was constructed from the simple framework of F****. 
posted by
C_C_T
on July 14, 2013 at 2:51 AM
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that sounds like a very scary encounter...I cannot really comment because I was not there to help you, I have no right to judge one way or the other but if the language helped you get away from an intolerable position..then I am very relieved for you.
posted by
Kabu
on July 13, 2013 at 8:56 PM
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