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i am sending prayers as promised.

posted by Kabu on July 16, 2013 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply

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I guess I didn't make that part clear in my post. He, actually, said "no, it's your money and you keep it". I am the one who didn't want any thing kept back in secret; although, I'm sure I will still put money back in little pockets and holes in the future. I think it's just my nature to do that like a squirrel!!!  I was poor too long in my childhood and I watched my mother feed and clothe 3 little girls on her own; must have rubbed off. 

But you are right. He does have a problem with gambling or so I THINK!!!!

posted by Butterfly-1950 on July 16, 2013 at 1:50 PM | link to this | reply

your husband seems to me to have a gambling problem. My last husband had a gambling problem along with all the rest and I ALWAYS had money he never knew about. It is another form of abuse to bully you onto giving him the cash the way he behaved. I am praying for you both.

posted by Kabu on July 16, 2013 at 11:44 AM | link to this | reply

You have well-handled the situation there. You are also a level headed person.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on July 16, 2013 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply