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Actually, Dr. JPT, my house is large enough so that we can do

most of what we wish without bothering any other occupants. I go for a 'live and let live' policy for the most part. It's the lady herself who wants to learn how to not get so stressed for little things. She has some work cut out for her, LOL!!!

posted by adnohr on August 5, 2013 at 10:08 AM | link to this | reply

It is your house and you must let her know how things are done in your house.  Many around me try to lead me like that.  I do like you, set the pace in my house.

posted by Dr_JPT on August 5, 2013 at 1:41 AM | link to this | reply

I'm not trying to change her, TAPS. She has decided that she wants

to relax and join those who actually take time to enjoy life instead of always planning ahead...usually negative at that. Dor some reason, she thinks I can help her with that, LOL!

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:42 PM | link to this | reply

LOL, Bro. Yep. Time is all I have!!

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:40 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you, Jay! What a sweet thing to say!

Makes me smile.

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:40 PM | link to this | reply

Yep - lotsa giggles and lotsa coffee, and maybe a glass or two of red wine

Kabu of Camelot!! 

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:39 PM | link to this | reply

She's a decent person, FSI. Just too stressed out is all.

And she's working on it!

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:38 PM | link to this | reply

Oh my - there seems to be so many like Helen!

You are welcome anytime dancin grandma. Maybe you could teach me to dance!!

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:37 PM | link to this | reply

Good one, huh, LostInLife?

Now I know what to do in the future - just hand her a broom and let her go!! 

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:36 PM | link to this | reply

Hope you do get to visit her soon, Pat_B

My Suzie from Detroit is the same. It used to drive me bonkers, then I thought - OK - let her do what she has to do. And I'll do what I want to do. Therein lies the success of me NOT getting stressed. They have to deal with their own emotions.

posted by adnohr on August 4, 2013 at 6:35 PM | link to this | reply

You have your work cut out for you.  It is difficult to change a person from the way they have always been.  LOL

posted by TAPS. on August 4, 2013 at 6:21 PM | link to this | reply

adnohr

You have so much time on your hands right?  LOL

posted by WileyJohn on August 4, 2013 at 5:46 PM | link to this | reply

You have a way about you, I think they call it kindness, it is beautiful on you and you wear it well.

posted by UtahJay on August 4, 2013 at 3:53 PM | link to this | reply

It is so difficult to wait when you really want to feel settled...I know...but of course with someone like you around, giggles and coffee would certainly win out. LOL

posted by Kabu on August 4, 2013 at 2:53 PM | link to this | reply

I am sure that she will be able to correct her personality trait of leaping before she looks...Things are coming along with Helen, I see.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on August 4, 2013 at 9:31 AM | link to this | reply

I need to spend some time with you when I am stressed out and worked up! I can identify with your friend Helen!

posted by dancin_grandma on August 4, 2013 at 9:28 AM | link to this | reply

nice!

brilliant idea with the broom!

posted by SomeoneElse on August 4, 2013 at 5:22 AM | link to this | reply

That's like the difference between me and my sister.

I can sit and read a book while the spiders put webs in the corners and the dust gathers. But she's snatching your coffee cup the second you set it down and the kitchen is tidy almost before the meal is served. Drives me nuts. Wish I could visit her.

posted by Pat_B on August 4, 2013 at 4:08 AM | link to this | reply