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I've occasionally been told that person(s) have been hitting on me. My reaction in most cases was, "Well, they could have told me what it was they wanted."
In my opinion, life is too short to be hinting around. If you want it, ask for it. If you've been asked and are agreeable, say so. If you don't want it, decline gracefully without making a scene. (How hard is it to say, "No, but thank you for the offer"?) If you've asked and been declined, be kind enough to back off, again without making a scene. If you don't know what you want,
don't play games: say NO. You can always ask if the offer is still open later.
posted by
GRYPHON
on January 29, 2004 at 7:28 AM
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I'm still suspicious as to whether they really exist.
posted by
TARZANA
on January 28, 2004 at 6:14 AM
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lol @ Ariala
Oh sure you are!
posted by
Jemmie211
on January 27, 2004 at 3:57 PM
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I'm not sure I'm "secure" enough to appear in a title with GAYDAR in it.
Thanks.
posted by
Ariala
on January 27, 2004 at 3:56 PM
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