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posted by
Kabu
on January 11, 2015 at 3:31 PM
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Nothing like some honest, non-judgemental communication
to resolve the problems in a relationship. Sadly, not everyone in the relationship is able to hear or speak clearly and truthfully. Sometimes healing only comes with distance.
You can go on loving an alcoholic/addict/profoundly needy person, but you can't let them go on hurting you.
posted by
Ciel
on January 11, 2015 at 1:36 PM
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Yes I guess it can be a bit like a Mother fretting. This is lovely if one is a timid person, I guess you will have to put up with this emotion or limit your time.
posted by
C_C_T
on January 11, 2015 at 1:17 AM
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I totally agree with you...finally someone gets my point! :)
posted by
DoodyM90
on January 10, 2015 at 3:54 PM
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My understanding is that friendships
**need to be give and take for them to be an equal friendship. Being there for each other. Otherwise it is one person as you say sponging up all their friends reserves.
**some friendships ru their course, unlike blood relatives there may come a time when two really good friends move away from each other...maybe it was an age thing,maybe children kept friends together, someyimes a divorce spoils a friendship or distance if one moves or finacial standing...there are many reasons that friendships cool.
posted by
Kabu
on January 10, 2015 at 2:47 PM
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