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Re: Annicita
Something has been up all the way along. He is acting like he's playing cloak and dagger here and I just will allow him out very cheaply. Just enough to get me started. i will let him and his x do all the fighting once I get moved.
posted by
Inside_The_Purple_Purse
on March 22, 2015 at 8:57 AM
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I have seen countless couples go through this it seems. It's not good but you may
want to stay some what close with him until you are actually able to purchase a home.
Then, If he's that bad that will be the perfect time to cut ''any'' ties.
posted by
Vermont01
on March 22, 2015 at 5:38 AM
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Blogit Prayers must work.
He stayed gone till about 7 pm. I just slept. It has become my perfered out not to feel the mess going on around me. Finally I got a response to my questions to the realtor. She suggested that I not give up on the house. I call the termite guy and asked if he would go into the house and make sure there was not an infestation of boring beatles. I have not heard from him yet but sure he will let me know. If it is just in the the crawl space then he can treat and I can move on and ask for a reduction in price.
Joe came home and seemed to be in a better mood. I would like to not go through his extreem moods anymore. My body feels the brunt of it. I ache all over. But glad he is more agreeable.
Since he is more agreeable i printed out Fulton county seperation agreement. I believe he is afraid I will not live up to my part of the bargain. He wants the 401K and the house. I will be glad to give him that. We can fill it out and have it noterized. Maybe he will be more likely to transfer the money over.
When he start his "pulling the rug out from under me" I get into a panik. All the work I have done is for nothing. I could have been here working and hiding from him. He can not make me stay with him, but it seems to be working.
Mindia and Sky wanted to have lunch yesterday. But Mindea did not want to talk about this stuff. I have a hard time talking about rainbows and unicorns when it feels like my world just fell apart.
At least blogit does not mind me telling the truth. Not living in dinial.
Yes, I have a Lawyer, but to retain her and talk with her is $1500 which I do not have. Joe has all control over the money. One of the reasons I want out. As well as he does not love me. He cringes at the thought of hugging me since I became Ill. I gave her a $350 consultation fee so that I could at least leagally say I have an attourney. I hope I don't need her. Although, I think she would do a stand up job for me, I know that all the resources we have would be gone if we went to court.
Thanks for your Good wishes and Prayers!
Maybe this will still work out.
Dana
posted by
Inside_The_Purple_Purse
on March 22, 2015 at 3:07 AM
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You better talk to a lawyer to protect your interest. Wish you the best 
posted by
Chuck_E_Ibrahim
on March 21, 2015 at 7:05 PM
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You have to have a lawyer...and call on our energy. Blogit spirit is united for you. call on our prayers and positive thinking. Hug your doggies.Much better than hugging HIM!!! the doggies love you, we here care and send you love. Drink green tea and Chamomile...
posted by
Kabu
on March 21, 2015 at 1:57 PM
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Purple
Do you have a lawyer with whom you could discuss all this?
posted by
Nautikos
on March 21, 2015 at 11:24 AM
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Here is to hoping that things resolve themselves.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on March 21, 2015 at 10:27 AM
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Something is up. He may or may not be hiding assets. Be careful. Any person doing that has something up his/her sleeve.
posted by
Annicita
on March 21, 2015 at 9:34 AM
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