That's what my dad asked recently. We have, in the past year, begun to finally relate as adult people with a mutual respect and tolerance that was never part of my growing-up landscape, and the primary reason we have gone until now without much to say to each other. I learned early that it was not safe to share what was in my heart and mind with my parents. But all that is done now. And he has begun to read some of what I have written here, as I edit and shift it to my website. When I visited... Sign in to see full entry.