I keep telling myself this, day after day but it's not so easy. There are so many factors involved. I was married and now I was thrust back into a single life again and I've been having a really hard time adapting. Does this make me pathetic? These are the reasons why sometimes I really wish I was still married: Having someone to sleep with. The possibility of having children. Having my own home. Sex. Going out during the weekend on a date but not have to worry about how to act. Dancing. Sex.... Sign in to see full entry.