Monday, February 10, 2003Blaming the other guy for your own problemsOne of the reasons I took the approach I did earlier, when I talked about the "trigger" incident which led my former partner to call me deranged, is that it is easy for domestic abusers to blame others for their problems. (A link to the characteristics of the average abuser is included here. This... Sign in to see full entry.posted by kidnykid at 2:51 PM Comments (2) (link) Lessons learnedI think in terms of the relationship I've been describing, and what circulates in my mind is what I mentioned earlier. I'm still not through processing the information I've gleaned from it, and I hope, in a way, never to be. Put another way, it's a part of my past I wish not to shut a door on. There... Sign in to see full entry.posted by kidnykid at 2:39 PM Comments (0) (link) Time to 'fess up, part twoThe most important incident pointing up both my own problems and those caused directly by whatever went on in my old relationship happened in 1992. It is helpful at this point for me to remind you, my readers, both that I was an undiagnosed bipolar-disorder patient and that the remote-viewing... Sign in to see full entry.posted by kidnykid at 9:08 AM Comments (0) (link) |
About this BlogThe name of the post is derived from a Francis Schaeffer book, and intended to rebut something I'd seen on the Internet. The blog itself is about what I've learned about relationships from the ones I've had, and the ones I've observed. It will not be pleasant to read, and might wander off-topic occasionally, but is intended to be a long-term blog reading like a public journal.![]() Links |