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Sounds like you are having an all-round bad time of it right now.  Just remember, this will pass and spring will come.  Both always do.  One thing that I do not do for myself is read horoscopes.  I don't think they do anything good for a person.  I'd rather take each day as it comes in a positive way with faith and acceptance and the desire to change whatever I don't like about it.

posted by TAPS. on February 23, 2010 at 11:48 AM | link to this | reply

You weave so much wisdom and positive thoughts in your posts; thanks! Thanks too for your comment. Take care. Nita.

posted by Nita09 on February 23, 2010 at 9:48 AM | link to this | reply

It was tasteless for him to send pictures with her in them! I am so sorry for these difficult firsts you are facing! I have you in my prayers! sam

posted by sam444 on February 22, 2010 at 10:14 PM | link to this | reply

The ex. needs ...well just as well I don't know him...I am like you I keep
my beloved family members who are gone, alive in my heart.But grief is a sneaky emotion and it hits whenever you're not quite expecting so it is tough to work through. I am so proud and in awe of your coping mechanisms...you are brave and strong and sensible and I love you to bits and am still hugging you and praying for you. Have a peaceful night dear one.

posted by Kabu on February 22, 2010 at 9:42 PM | link to this | reply

 Skye, you are trying so hard to be at peace and I know you will achieve - you are on the right path.  I feel this.  You share so humbly - and I'm touched by your grief yet, I feel assured you will get stronger each passing day especially by allowing positive to touch your life.   Elyse

posted by elysianfields on February 22, 2010 at 8:51 PM | link to this | reply

Hi Skye, It's ok to think of YOU in times of grief, it really helps in healing. When there was a death in my family, all of us tried to be anchors to each other forgetting our own grief and it took us so long to heal so much so that in my case, I couldn't cope with the sadness and it affected me both spiritually and mentally. It's good that you try so hard to be positive.

Thanks so much for your visit and I'm happy that you can relate to the poem.

posted by shobana on February 22, 2010 at 7:44 PM | link to this | reply