OneTimeAgain's recent post about her grandfather, and a comment to it, roused these thoughts: When my father retired, they threw a party for him, and in the guestbook, which I received a few years later, among other family papers, there were the most amazing comments of warmth and appreciation for his achievements in the field, and his impact on their lives. One part of me was surprised and proud to see how they regarded him, but another part of me was angry, that he never shared this side of... Sign in to see full entry.